All guys cheat, or does it only show insecurity?

[oats]

Originally Posted by Figurative

The modern structure of what a relationship is goes against our nature. With that said, I think there are those that we can hold ourselves explicitly for, but I think the beat situation in that case is for both people to remain open sexually.

Im not guna act like finding that with someone is simple, but that's what makes the most sense in my head

To answer the question, I haven't and probably wouldn't.

Try to feel that way when you have feelings for a woman and she's out getting plowed by other dudes. Doesn't work like that, ever. I had a number of friends with benefits situations in college, someone always developed feelings. It's a physiological side-effect of sex (oxytocin).

[iforgiveyou]

Art thou need to multiply thou earth.

[Fig]

Originally Posted by oats

Try to feel that way when you have feelings for a woman and she's out getting plowed by other dudes. Doesn't work like that, ever. I had a number of friends with benefits situations in college, someone always developed feelings. It's a physiological side-effect of sex (oxytocin).

Like i said, im not guna say its simply done, but ive seen it happen. Maybe i just have yet to see it be ruined, but I will still hold onto the idea

[Mael]

To answer the OP's question, I don't think it shows insecurity and much as a lack of self-discipline. I've cheated before and the girl I was with at the time found out and she let it slide, but because I was a young, dumb teenage, I did it again and she found out, again. She dumped me and I felt like complete shit, not to mention how she did. I learned my lesson, so it's either I'm in a single relationship or not, period. If you feel no guilt when indirectly hurting a girl's emotions, then there's something wrong somewhere.

Originally Posted by NYCSPITZ

Lol argument flawed in numerous ways, here's the salient point

1) males have evolved with the innate desire to impregnate as many hoes as possible

i.e. if you are a monogamous male and you're under 30, you're a brainwashed bitch!!!

"Oh well, one of the first things I would do is I would institute something like the Manhattan project, for a safe long lasting means of birth control. Simply implant that in all children at age 10. That would solve our population problem right off the bat. It would also help us to practice a benign form of eugenics. Or I should probably say, anti-disgenics. Prevent undesirable genetic mutations in the human genome. People who wanted children would apply to make sure they have no diseases. Either we have to do it through genetic engineering, or we have to let only the fit breed. We like to think it is our right to breed as incontinently as we want to. Have as many kids with whomever we want to. Future generations of man kind have been settled with the results of what we do. Or we don't do. Freedom is not necessarily a right. It is a privilege you have to earn. A lot of people abuse their freedom and that is something that people have to be trained not to do."

- Chris Langan

Nah mate, wear rubber.

but @oats is right, in college i engaged in friends w benefits and open relationships and both ended up very tumultuously