AT WHAT AGE AM I TOO OLD TO OBSESS OVER ANOTHER MAN AKA HUSH EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE AN GET NO WHERE WIT iT? TELL ME PLZ

veritas · 10-23-2013, 08:59 AM

I SAY NO LATER THAN THE AGE OF 25 WIN LOSE OR DRAW.....

Inno · 10-23-2013, 09:12 AM

25 is long.

@18 you should be out your parents house yo

Answer · 10-23-2013, 09:18 AM

Realistically speaking, unless you're a trustfund baby - you're probably not going to be out of the house at 18. No "out of highschool with no degree or real life work experience" job pays enough money to cover the cost of a car, insurance, rent AND bills. Chances are you're going to be working as a cashier at a really shitty place for a few years and making minimum wage.

And if you plan on going to college fulltime, that's even more expenses and more time that can't be spent working a full-time job.

Maybe in the 80's, the system was set-up to allow people to move out of the house by 18 - but these days, that's damn near impossible unless you've got your parents feeding you money

...the Nagger · 10-23-2013, 09:19 AM

tbh, it should be when you're getting married

Beyond · 10-23-2013, 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by ...the Munster

tbh, it should be when you're getting married

veritas · 10-23-2013, 09:23 AM

SO IS 25 A FAIR AGE?

Frank Metts · 10-23-2013, 09:24 AM

I left at 17 ... Moved back a few times over the course of my life for a couple months here and their as a transition but first left at 17

veritas · 10-23-2013, 09:24 AM

I LEFT AT 21..NEVER LOOKED BACK.

Frank Metts · 10-23-2013, 09:27 AM

I left prematurely... It helped me learn to survive and live within means though

Answer · 10-23-2013, 09:28 AM

You should definitely live with a girl before you marry her. Dating someone and living with them is two ENTIRELY different things, and if you wait until after the marriage, you cant even -tell- how many gremlins will pop up

veritas · 10-23-2013, 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Answer

You should definitely live with a girl before you marry her. Dating someone and living with them is two ENTIRELY different things, and if you wait until after the marriage, you cant even -tell- how many gremlins will pop up

i agree, but this has nothing to do with the topic lol.

Answer · 10-23-2013, 09:32 AM

by the way, I don't count "moving out" as boarding in a dorm room at college, or living with a roommate. That, to me, just says you're dumb with your money and you're moving out just for the sake of saying "Hey I moved out"

Unless your home life is actually intolerable enough to merit moving out, you should be financially intelligent enough to know that taking advantage of as much free board as you can is the best move

I count moving out as getting your OWN place. If it's with a significant other, that's fine - assuming you plan on being with them for a long time

veritas · 10-23-2013, 09:35 AM

LET ME ASK YOU ANSWER, IF I WAS A 27 YEAR OLD MAN AND I STILL LIVED WITH MY MOM AND OR DAD, WOULD THAT BE UNRESPECTABLE
?

Answer · 10-23-2013, 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by The Mind Assassin

i agree, but this has nothing to do with the topic lol.

I was just responding to the people that said "it should be when you're getting married."

Getting married isn't something you do at a certain age...it's something you do whenever you happen to meet the person that's right for you. That could happen anywhere between the ages of 18 and 40. For some people, even later

but as for moving out, that's all contingent on a lot of different things. What's more important is what you're doing WHILE you're living with your parents. If you're 25, but have a good paying job and enough money to move out - but you want to take the free board until you pay off your car, by all means - that's a smart fucking thing to do

but if you're 25 years old & not doing shit with your life but playing COD all day and not actively doing anything to improve your situation, then you're pathetic

Myself, I moved out when I was 23 & currently have an apartment with my girlfriend. But we both have car payments, bills, and other unexpected shit. And it's not we're struggling to pay them - we do fine. but we don't have nearly as much free money to save up as we did before we moved in together

Untold · 10-23-2013, 09:42 AM

Hmm... I'm 25 and have moved in and out since I was 18. I'm living at home at least till I'm 26, because I'll be moving back to New Orleans this summer.

But I don't know. I'll be graduating right after that as well and considering going to California. My parents want me to live here, and I want to also, till I graduate and what not. I'm really grateful for that also.

So, I guess as long as it takes. My gf's brother and his wife lived with his parents AFTER they got married for a year or so. Then once they had the funds, moved out, bought a house and now runs/owns a successful salon here in town. He's pushing 28 and she was over 30. So ya...

10-23-2013, 09:42 AM

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Originally Posted by The Mind Assassin

LET ME ASK YOU ANSWER, IF I WAS A 27 YEAR OLD MAN AND I STILL LIVED WITH MY MOM AND OR DAD, WOULD THAT BE UNRESPECTABLE
?

@Victor

answer?

veritas · 10-23-2013, 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Answer

I was just responding to the people that said "it should be when you're getting married."

Getting married isn't something you do at a certain age...it's something you do whenever you happen to meet the person that's right for you. That could happen anywhere between the ages of 18 and 40. For some people, even later

but as for moving out, that's all contingent on a lot of different things. What's more important is what you're doing WHILE you're living with your parents. If you're 25, but have a good paying job and enough money to move out - but you want to take the free board until you pay off your car, by all means - that's a smart fucking thing to do

but if you're 25 years old & not doing shit with your life but playing COD all day and not actively doing anything to improve your situation, then you're pathetic

Myself, I moved out when I was 23 & currently have an apartment with my girlfriend. But we both have car payments, bills, and other unexpected shit. And it's not we're struggling to pay them - we do fine. but we don't have nearly as much free money to save up as we did before we moved in together

so you would have a problem with a dude over the age of 25 sitting at moms house smoking weed, playing videogames, and pretending to be a gangster right?

Ghost1 · 10-23-2013, 09:50 AM

Left at 20

Rawn MD · 10-23-2013, 09:52 AM

I left at 16..but similar situation to what's frank meets said + legal

Wise Wiggles · 10-23-2013, 09:58 AM

I left when I was 13

Lived on trains for a couple years

Then I got Internet access and started txt battling

10-23-2013, 09:42 AM	#15
Untold Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2013 Posts: 865 Battle Record: 10-7 Rep Power: 0	Hmm... I'm 25 and have moved in and out since I was 18. I'm living at home at least till I'm 26, because I'll be moving back to New Orleans this summer. But I don't know. I'll be graduating right after that as well and considering going to California. My parents want me to live here, and I want to also, till I graduate and what not. I'm really grateful for that also. So, I guess as long as it takes. My gf's brother and his wife lived with his parents AFTER they got married for a year or so. Then once they had the funds, moved out, bought a house and now runs/owns a successful salon here in town. He's pushing 28 and she was over 30. So ya... __________________ MT

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Rawn MD Get MacDon Join Date: Dec 1969 Posts: 2,168 Battle Record: 3-7 Accomplishments - OM HOF Rep Power: 0	I left at 16..but similar situation to what's frank meets said + legal __________________ FFC>FCC A. bove T. he R. est

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Wise Wiggles nok Su kow Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 4,505 Battle Record: 1-1 Rep Power: 51788022	I left when I was 13 Lived on trains for a couple years Then I got Internet access and started txt battling __________________ "black as midnight..black as pitch blacker than the soul of the foulest witch"

10-23-2013, 09:12 AM	#2
Inno Ad mini tator Join Date: Feb 2013 Posts: 10,024 Battle Record: 26-54 Champed - Lime Green Poetry Association - Black August - 1-2 Punch League Rep Power: 85899403	25 is long. @18 you should be out your parents house yo

10-23-2013, 09:18 AM	#3
Answer He / Him / His Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 1,701 Battle Record: 20-1 Champed - Summer Classic IX - Netcees Battle League - Fight night 15 Rep Power: 14633673	Realistically speaking, unless you're a trustfund baby - you're probably not going to be out of the house at 18. No "out of highschool with no degree or real life work experience" job pays enough money to cover the cost of a car, insurance, rent AND bills. Chances are you're going to be working as a cashier at a really shitty place for a few years and making minimum wage. And if you plan on going to college fulltime, that's even more expenses and more time that can't be spent working a full-time job. Maybe in the 80's, the system was set-up to allow people to move out of the house by 18 - but these days, that's damn near impossible unless you've got your parents feeding you money

10-23-2013, 09:19 AM	#4
...the Nagger Junior Member Join Date: May 2013 Posts: 2,856 Battle Record: 4-4 Rep Power: 15781387	tbh, it should be when you're getting married

10-23-2013, 09:24 AM	#7
Frank Metts Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 2,621 Battle Record: 0-1 Rep Power: 2305789	I left at 17 ... Moved back a few times over the course of my life for a couple months here and their as a transition but first left at 17

10-23-2013, 09:27 AM	#9
Frank Metts Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 2,621 Battle Record: 0-1 Rep Power: 2305789	I left prematurely... It helped me learn to survive and live within means though

10-23-2013, 09:28 AM	#10
Answer He / Him / His Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 1,701 Battle Record: 20-1 Champed - Summer Classic IX - Netcees Battle League - Fight night 15 Rep Power: 14633673	You should definitely live with a girl before you marry her. Dating someone and living with them is two ENTIRELY different things, and if you wait until after the marriage, you cant even -tell- how many gremlins will pop up

10-23-2013, 09:32 AM	#12
Answer He / Him / His Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 1,701 Battle Record: 20-1 Champed - Summer Classic IX - Netcees Battle League - Fight night 15 Rep Power: 14633673	by the way, I don't count "moving out" as boarding in a dorm room at college, or living with a roommate. That, to me, just says you're dumb with your money and you're moving out just for the sake of saying "Hey I moved out" Unless your home life is actually intolerable enough to merit moving out, you should be financially intelligent enough to know that taking advantage of as much free board as you can is the best move I count moving out as getting your OWN place. If it's with a significant other, that's fine - assuming you plan on being with them for a long time