Privacy in marriage

[trap]

The thin line is that she has to speak to him so he can be more involved in the childs life, but she probably also has to endure his possible ridiculous flirting he might be doing because he can get away with saying these things in between the chat about their child. She probably disregards those stupid flirt texts, or what you would interpret as such, so she is withholding that information to prevent you from getting upset. I'm sure she is handling the situation well, and is also considering your feelings in this matter, and not whatever you might think is happening.

[TYSON]

Originally Posted by trap

The thin line is that she has to speak to him so he can be more involved in the childs life, but she probably also has to endure his possible ridiculous flirting he might be doing because he can get away with saying these things in between the chat about their child. She probably disregards those stupid flirt texts, or what you would interpret as such, so she is withholding that information to prevent you from getting upset. I'm sure she is handling the situation well, and is also considering your feelings in this matter, and not whatever you might think is happening.

This pretty much what I think is going on. I don't think not telling me or withholding them is a good way to avoid drama because it causes drama between me in her instead.