Is it gay if your girlfriend puts a finger up your ass?

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Originally Posted by anime_boners

That's the whole point.

The act alone is not what defines gay, but the gender with whom you do it.

Kissing same sex - gay
Kissing opposite sex - not gay
Oral sex with same sex - gay
Oral with opposite sex - not gay
Penetrating same sex - gay
Penetrating opposite sex - not gay
Being penetrated by same sex - gay
Being penetrated by opposite sex - not gay

It is a simple pattern that doesn't break all of a sudden at the end because our archaic society has engineered males to have a fear of phallic imagery.

explain the last one plz.