women always want you to love them for them..

[Badweather]

did you just come to this realization via a bad relationship?


there's difficulty in all of it. on one hand you can have a girl trying to change you, which is frustrating. then you have a girl that can just put up with your shit, which can get boring. the difficulty lies in finding one that you're willing to make certain changes for, finding one worth compromising.

gotta find the right level of challenge, and stop settling.

[Frank Metts]

Originally Posted by Badweather

did you just come to this realization via a bad relationship?


there's difficulty in all of it. on one hand you can have a girl trying to change you, which is frustrating. then you have a girl that can just put up with your shit, which can get boring. the difficulty lies in finding one that you're willing to make certain changes for, finding one worth compromising.

gotta find the right level of challenge, and stop settling.

Well put old friend ... key word is compromise .. and its works both ways, women are very subtle and make small changes gradually that become normal instead of noticable and they add up over time... men are more thick headed and take more of an aggressive approach to change... like it has to be instant or it isn't change