I hate my family - Page 2

Objective · 01-28-2013, 05:21 PM

Yeah, to each its own and the definition of abuse is really varied. I don't consider physical punishment as abuse as long as it's done in the way you're describing alltho' I can't see myself doing the same to my kids when I get some of my own. Parenting is exactly what the word states; It's the parents decision on how they want to raise their childs as long as it's not excessive aka beating your kid for no reason or keep them locked in a room/sit-out for hours. With what I used to work with I've seen kids hit their parents and disproved it in silence as well. When kids get violent/physical it's mostly due to them being frustrated and not knowing how to express their feelings, sitting down with them and learning them how to convey a certain issue with words removes that unless you suck as a parent.

And the family thing; Word, was just stating that it differs considering OP's situation and that he might read it. It was probably asshole-ish of me to be as blunt as I was, just wanted OP to know that there's ways to solve this shit if it's really bad and that he shouldn't feel obliged to be in a place where abuse takes place just because they're fam.

Anonymous · 01-28-2013, 05:37 PM

Yo prophet, If you're getting abused you have to report that shit to the police.
If it's just for disciplinary purposes, then it will build your character and make you a better man.
But there's a fine line between discipline & abuse. When that shit starts to get out of hand, you have tot tell someone.

namix · 01-28-2013, 05:48 PM

word @Anonymous.... work out just cuz... call someone if it's that deep - AND:

in the meantime, kill with kindness dude.

if you don't deserve to be beat, just say "i love you", and nothing more. say it a couple times if you need to.

might sound weak to the weak, but watch.

they are going to either have immediate changes, or deal with more pain later on than you'd ever take on in the moment.

Witty · 01-28-2013, 06:10 PM

I hate your family too.

01-28-2013, 06:13 PM

speak to ur guidance councler at school and say how ur daddy spanks u...if things work out well, u will have a new residence shortly after.

Strikta · 01-28-2013, 06:15 PM

This thread will not bode well for ur rd1 tournament experience.

TYSON · 01-28-2013, 07:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Strikta

This thread will not bode well for ur rd1 tournament experience.

Lol....

God Of War · 01-28-2013, 07:43 PM

u can not tell me whipping ur kids doesnt teach them anything. i remember first time i got smart ass with my mom i got back slapped and i fguarantee i didnt do that shit again. i think some parents can go crazy and id never whip my kid like that. but i got my ass beat alot

El Muffin · 01-28-2013, 08:46 PM

i love how everybody automatically assumed proph was getting buttmolested

Anonymous · 01-28-2013, 08:48 PM

Lmao

Hush · 01-28-2013, 09:07 PM

Sound like Malachi got a uncle Tyson

El Muffin · 01-28-2013, 09:09 PM

ohmy

TYSON · 01-28-2013, 09:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hush

Sound like Malachi got a uncle Tyson

Boi u hanging on the nut hairs for dear life...

Hush · 01-28-2013, 09:12 PM

LOL claims he ain't a pedophile, posts about boys hanging on his nuts.

Does not compute.

TYSON · 01-28-2013, 09:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hush

LOL claims he ain't a pedophile, posts about boys hanging on his nuts.

Does not compute.

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Hop off son...

Dope girl · 01-28-2013, 10:42 PM

Why?:(

Dope girl · 01-28-2013, 10:47 PM

you suppose to treat your family with caring.

Malachi · 01-29-2013, 02:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Malachi

Lmao I don't get beat, son

But word thanks

^

Immaculate · 01-29-2013, 04:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by God Of War

u can not tell me whipping ur kids doesnt teach them anything. i remember first time i got smart ass with my mom i got back slapped and i fguarantee i didnt do that shit again. i think some parents can go crazy and id never whip my kid like that. but i got my ass beat alot

Yup. Agree. Theres discipline and then theres child abuse.

@Malachi, tbh I just quickly looked through your thread lol but bottom line is, theres no place like your family, yeah we all have our bad days and that, but we all aint perfect, you feel me?

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01-28-2013, 05:21 PM	#21
Objective ( ͡º ͜ʖ ͡º) Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 3,868 Battle Record: 17-32 Rep Power: 52474192	Yeah, to each its own and the definition of abuse is really varied. I don't consider physical punishment as abuse as long as it's done in the way you're describing alltho' I can't see myself doing the same to my kids when I get some of my own. Parenting is exactly what the word states; It's the parents decision on how they want to raise their childs as long as it's not excessive aka beating your kid for no reason or keep them locked in a room/sit-out for hours. With what I used to work with I've seen kids hit their parents and disproved it in silence as well. When kids get violent/physical it's mostly due to them being frustrated and not knowing how to express their feelings, sitting down with them and learning them how to convey a certain issue with words removes that unless you suck as a parent. And the family thing; Word, was just stating that it differs considering OP's situation and that he might read it. It was probably asshole-ish of me to be as blunt as I was, just wanted OP to know that there's ways to solve this shit if it's really bad and that he shouldn't feel obliged to be in a place where abuse takes place just because they're fam.

01-28-2013, 05:37 PM	#22
Anonymous Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 166 Rep Power: 0	Yo prophet, If you're getting abused you have to report that shit to the police. If it's just for disciplinary purposes, then it will build your character and make you a better man. But there's a fine line between discipline & abuse. When that shit starts to get out of hand, you have tot tell someone.

01-28-2013, 05:48 PM	#23
namix been that, done there. Join Date: Jun 2001 Posts: 2,259 Battle Record: 2-1 Accomplishments - OM HOF Rep Power: 85246655	word @Anonymous.... work out just cuz... call someone if it's that deep - AND: in the meantime, kill with kindness dude. if you don't deserve to be beat, just say "i love you", and nothing more. say it a couple times if you need to. might sound weak to the weak, but watch. they are going to either have immediate changes, or deal with more pain later on than you'd ever take on in the moment.

01-28-2013, 06:10 PM	#24
Witty Lime Life Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 16,978 Battle Record: 30-41 Accomplishments - Only Slightly Retarded Champed - Lyric Olympics - Summer Classic Rep Power: 85235118	I hate your family too.

01-28-2013, 06:13 PM	#25
Rawn M.D. Guest Posts: n/a	speak to ur guidance councler at school and say how ur daddy spanks u...if things work out well, u will have a new residence shortly after.

01-28-2013, 06:15 PM	#26
Strikta 39 NS, lost in votes once Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 11,242 Battle Record: 32-40 Champed - Time to Kill X - Write Week III Rep Power: 84181452	This thread will not bode well for ur rd1 tournament experience.

01-28-2013, 07:43 PM	#28
God Of War The Landlord Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 5,822 Battle Record: 12-10 Rep Power: 10493983	u can not tell me whipping ur kids doesnt teach them anything. i remember first time i got smart ass with my mom i got back slapped and i fguarantee i didnt do that shit again. i think some parents can go crazy and id never whip my kid like that. but i got my ass beat alot

01-28-2013, 08:48 PM	#30
Anonymous Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 166 Rep Power: 0	Lmao

01-28-2013, 09:07 PM	#31
Hush NJ Devil Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 12,036 Battle Record: Who Cares Accomplishments - Hall of Fame Rep Power: 84181420	Sound like Malachi got a uncle Tyson

01-28-2013, 09:12 PM	#34
Hush NJ Devil Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 12,036 Battle Record: Who Cares Accomplishments - Hall of Fame Rep Power: 84181420	LOL claims he ain't a pedophile, posts about boys hanging on his nuts. Does not compute.

01-28-2013, 10:42 PM	#36
Dope girl Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: I live in Florida Posts: 4,788 Battle Record: 3-8 Rep Power: 55521419	Why?:(

01-28-2013, 10:47 PM	#37
Dope girl Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: I live in Florida Posts: 4,788 Battle Record: 3-8 Rep Power: 55521419	you suppose to treat your family with caring.