I hate my family
 

Assholes

Just ignore the parts of your family you hate. It's not that hard, you just need to stop giving a fuck about myths like ''blood is stronger than water'' etc.

The parts, like which people?

Cause I don't like the ones I'm living with

Do they beat you?

No not really cause I'm not bad but when my dad hits me he over does it

Want me to get Knux on em?

:) can you?

Lol

The way I see it you got 2 choices;

1. Start working out and beat up your old man the next time he tries to do that shit, or get someone else to do it for you and get that person to threaten your dad in such a way he aint going to hit you (or your mother) again.
2. Talk to child services/the police/whatever.

Alternatively you got the third option;

Wait it out until you can move out and get your own place..

Shit i never had any abuse problems so i dont have any good advice....just thought humor would help a bit

"Counseling is thousands of dollars, manslaughter is a tenner for a shovel and some forethought"- Nelson Mandela

Lol i don't get abused. But whatever

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Word...iono u just made it sound that way....s'all good

but for real... i got Knux on AIM i can tell him for u

OP: Things aint going to change itself, believe that. #GetHimKnux'd

Man up, Prophet.

You'll be better for it.

I got my ass whooped by my mom. She used a belt, switch(branch from tree or bush), extension cord, and shoe. But only on my ass drop your drawls type shit. Also punched me in my chest during her "man up nigga" times. But she showed great love afterwards and always explained and made sure I understood why I got punished. I resented it but as I got older and seen how people were who didn't get disciplined I came to respect and thank her for how she raised me. She stopped whooping her kids when my lil bro came cause he was way more sensitive then me and my sister. She apologized to us but again we thanked her. Basically I'm saying is you will hate it now but it will build character. People are so scared to discipline they kids like timeouts will really work. Cause I was bad and my sister was worse timeouts was time to think of something else to do lol.

But now to the hate your family part. From how I see it "blood IS thicker then water" family will be there when the whole world is against u. Love the good and the bad cause I'm sure they love your good and your bad.

lol @SiK trynna get knux

i wish i could beat up your father for you buddy

stay strong move out and you'll never have to take his shit again.

but before you leave make sure you take a bunch of his shit bro , sell it for first couple months rent

Lmao I don't get beat, son

But word thanks

I wrote a long paragraph and figured it was tl;dr. Either way; Beating your kids does fuck all, timeouts do nothing as well, neither of these methods work unless you do it properly. Explaining the kid/s why a certain thing is bad and make sure they understand why is what I've had success with. Different punishments along with explenations for whatever happened is the best way to approach a certain situation. Psychology is key. Understand the kid and talk in a language that makes him/her understand you and the kid will listen to you on mostly anything.

''Family will be there when the whole world is against you.'' Dude, that's clichè'd as fuck and anything but real to a shitload of people, myself included.

To each its own. I was raised old school and no its not for everyone as my mother found out with my younger brother. I don't really disagree with your method as long as it works but when I see parents begging their kids to listen to them or do something that shit pisses me off. Seems like parents kiss there kids ass which is a big no no for me. Are the whooping kids method flawed yes but so is the method u said. No I was not beat/abused I was disciplined. If your kid tells u to shut up they deserve they ass whooped if your kid hits u they deserve they ass whooped. I went to school with this mexican kid in elementary his name was silverado (name says all)and he literally used to beat his mama up in by the 5th grade no bullshitting.

About the family thing. That's fact atleast with my family. I'm sorry u think different but my family is loyal sorry u haven't experienced that.