I hate my family

Objective · 01-28-2013, 05:21 PM

Yeah, to each its own and the definition of abuse is really varied. I don't consider physical punishment as abuse as long as it's done in the way you're describing alltho' I can't see myself doing the same to my kids when I get some of my own. Parenting is exactly what the word states; It's the parents decision on how they want to raise their childs as long as it's not excessive aka beating your kid for no reason or keep them locked in a room/sit-out for hours. With what I used to work with I've seen kids hit their parents and disproved it in silence as well. When kids get violent/physical it's mostly due to them being frustrated and not knowing how to express their feelings, sitting down with them and learning them how to convey a certain issue with words removes that unless you suck as a parent.

And the family thing; Word, was just stating that it differs considering OP's situation and that he might read it. It was probably asshole-ish of me to be as blunt as I was, just wanted OP to know that there's ways to solve this shit if it's really bad and that he shouldn't feel obliged to be in a place where abuse takes place just because they're fam.

01-28-2013, 05:21 PM	#22
Objective ( ͡º ͜ʖ ͡º) Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 3,868 Battle Record: 17-32 Rep Power: 52474192	Yeah, to each its own and the definition of abuse is really varied. I don't consider physical punishment as abuse as long as it's done in the way you're describing alltho' I can't see myself doing the same to my kids when I get some of my own. Parenting is exactly what the word states; It's the parents decision on how they want to raise their childs as long as it's not excessive aka beating your kid for no reason or keep them locked in a room/sit-out for hours. With what I used to work with I've seen kids hit their parents and disproved it in silence as well. When kids get violent/physical it's mostly due to them being frustrated and not knowing how to express their feelings, sitting down with them and learning them how to convey a certain issue with words removes that unless you suck as a parent. And the family thing; Word, was just stating that it differs considering OP's situation and that he might read it. It was probably asshole-ish of me to be as blunt as I was, just wanted OP to know that there's ways to solve this shit if it's really bad and that he shouldn't feel obliged to be in a place where abuse takes place just because they're fam.