anyone divorced in here????

[TYSON]

????

[Arid]

twice

[veritas]

Couple cats in here divorced from reality. Does that count?

[Blanco Bishop]

Think about it once a month but then i get over it.


U bout to cut ties?

[TYSON]

Yep moved out already. Just wondering some experiences.....and twice tho lol one and some for me.

[sral]

Originally Posted by TYSON

Yep moved out already. Just wondering some experiences.....and twice tho lol one and some for me.

oh shit

that Shallow Al sized broad finally cheated on you with that fuckboy right?

[Hush]

Originally Posted by sraL

oh shit

that Shallow Al sized broad finally cheated on you with that fuckboy right?

Lolcold

[Batty]

It's always only gonna be what you make it.

It's useless to say marriage means one thing or another, when we clearly see how it's "open to interpretation". Just look at open marriages and people getting married for citizenship, etc.

All you really gotta shoot for as finding a chick (or dude if you're teh faygot) who's idea of marriage matches up with yours.

It always fucks with my mind when I see niggas married to porn stars. This bitch is basically in a gangbang then gets glazed with moneyshots and some nigga is at home looking at the clock. How does that work?

[Witty]

Originally Posted by Batty

It always fucks with my mind when I see niggas married to porn stars. This bitch is basically in a gangbang then gets glazed with moneyshots and some nigga is at home looking at the clock. How does that work?

I have thought about this, I don't think it's a marriage based on love...I honestly don't think it can be. I think it's some twisted form of ego...like some "I got the chick every dude wants to fuck" kind of shit.

[Witty]

I'm never getting married.

I'm cool with being in a long term relationship, I actually enjoy it a lot, but marriage is bullshit through and through.

[veritas]

Originally Posted by Witty

I'm never getting married.

I'm cool with being in a long term relationship, I actually enjoy it a lot, but marriage is bullshit through and through.

I disagree.

[Witty]

Originally Posted by VERITAS

I disagree.

Ok.

I just don't understand how getting married has a positive effect on a relationship, if you love someone then just be with them, you can do all of the same things without having to sign a contract.`

[veritas]

Originally Posted by Witty

Ok.

I just don't understand how getting married has a positive effect on a relationship, if you love someone then just be with them, you can do all of the same things without having to sign a contract.`

if we are going to do this we must first establish a great truth: the separation of what marriage is supposed to be, and what it currently is in todays time. fair?

[Witty]

Originally Posted by VERITAS

if we are going to do this we must first establish a great truth: the separation of what marriage is supposed to be, and what it currently is in todays time. fair?

Fair.

Elab.

[Dominate]

Originally Posted by Witty

Ok.

I just don't understand how getting married has a positive effect on a relationship, if you love someone then just be with them, you can do all of the same things without having to sign a contract.`

I disagree from an entirely non-religious perspective.

I don't think it should change the relationship at all and I don't think a "contract" or any sort of legal certificate is necessary, but I think that having a relationship with someone that's good enough that you're sure you want that person to be your life partner is worthy of a celebration with friends and fam.

[Witty]

Originally Posted by Dominate

I disagree from an entirely non-religious perspective.

I don't think it should change the relationship at all and I don't think a "contract" or any sort of legal certificate is necessary, but I think that having a relationship with someone that's good enough that you're sure you want that person to be your life partner is worthy of a celebration with friends and fam.

So have the celebration, there's no need to make it a legal thing, which is what marriage is.

It's a legally binding contract...that is pointless imo.

[sral]

Originally Posted by Witty

I'm never getting married.

I'm cool with being in a long term relationship, I actually enjoy it a lot, but marriage is bullshit through and through.

i'm with @VERITAS here

getting married this year for definate

fixing dates with venue/hotels atm

i hear back at 2:30pm this afternoon yo

wish me luck my irish bredrin :)

[Witty]

Originally Posted by sraL

i'm with @VERITAS here

getting married this year for definate

fixing dates with venue/hotels atm

i hear back at 2:30pm this afternoon yo

wish me luck my irish bredrin :)

Best of luck my dude, hope it all goes well.

I'm not saying marriage can't be a good thing, I just don't think it's essential for a relationship but I'm guessing it's kinda cool to have a wife and be all like 'yo this my wife' so I'm not completely against it, I just don't know if it's for me...I'm young tho, and stupid, so I may be talking out of my ass lol

g'luck tho for real.

[veritas]

Marriage in it's pure form represents the highest human relationship: a man and woman becoming one under God.

Marriage in it's todays form is a joke.

If you are against marriage in it's original form I will happily hearken unto your reasonings. I you are against marriage in todays' form I might call you a wise man.

[Witty]

Originally Posted by VERITAS

Marriage in it's pure form represents the highest human relationship: a man and woman becoming one under God.

Marriage in it's todays form is a joke.

If you are against marriage in it's original form I will happily hearken unto your reasonings. I you are against marriage in todays' form I might call you a wise man.

I accept marriage as the description you stated but the marriage of the bible is nowhere even close to what it is today, all marriage was supposed to be was two people dedicating their life to God and themselves, a promise or covenant, nothing more...nowadays it's like a prison sentence at times, it's designed to restrict free will and focuses far too much on the financial side of things...love should not be a legal matter imo it should not be a matter of contracts, and if you want to leave you should not be afraid to do so...marriage too often makes people afraid to leave, it keeps them trapped in an unhappy relationship in a lot of cases.