How old is too old for the club?

Answer · 11-02-2013, 09:23 AM

I'm 24, but when I was 21, I was going to clubs 5 - 6 times a week and got involved with too many problematic girls in the process, so I got tired of them really quick. I've only gone out once in the last couple years

But how old should you be when you finally grow out of that phase? I know nobody wants to see 50-60 year old men and women in the club.

Personally, I think anything over 30 is too old. You should get the last of it out of your system by 29, but then you need to grow the hell up

Diode · 11-02-2013, 09:28 AM

30.

Frank Metts · 11-02-2013, 09:30 AM

Why is inserting yourself in a social scene after 30 a bad thing? Doing it every night of the week would be bad but some clubs are directed towards an older crowd

Personally I'm 32 and wouldn't step foot in a club if you paid me but I'm married with children.... if I was single I could see going once a month maybe but to something a little more grown that has a strict dress code etc etx.

I did most of my clubbing ( double entendre ) before I hit 18 .. Knowing bouncers and a fake ID can take you places lol but I was sick of them by 22

Answer · 11-02-2013, 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Frank Metts

Why is inserting yourself in a social scene after 30 a bad thing? Doing it every night of the week would be bad but some clubs are directed towards an older crowd

Personally I'm 32 and wouldn't step foot in a club if you paid me but I'm married with children.... if I was single I could see going once a month maybe but to something a little more grown that has a strict dress code etc etx.

I did most of my clubbing ( double entendre ) before I hit 18 .. Knowing bouncers and a fake ID can take you places lol but I was sick of them by 22

I, of course, have never been 30. So I can't say from experience...but I always expect the social scene of 30 to be completely different than the social scene of 20. I know I took my little sister to a concert fairly recently (i cant remember the name of the band....they work kiss-like makeup and did punk/heavy rock music) but I was hanging out at the bar off to the side and two middle aged women tried to pick me up. That's just gross, man

11-02-2013, 09:52 AM

Doing security in them turned me off clubs/pubs/alcohol

Havent been in one since i was 19 unless it was for work.

Frank Metts · 11-02-2013, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Answer

I, of course, have never been 30. So I can't say from experience...but I always expect the social scene of 30 to be completely different than the social scene of 20. I know I took my little sister to a concert fairly recently (i cant remember the name of the band....they work kiss-like makeup and did punk/heavy rock music) but I was hanging out at the bar off to the side and two middle aged women tried to pick me up. That's just gross, man

The social scene at 30 is suppose to be your family and close friends and then maybe once a year some place you'd never go to and for good reason...

With divorce rate up and the popularity of cougars and younger women being attracted to older men, clubs have seen a rise in age and it probably is awkward because younger women aren't clubbing looking for a Gibbs from csi look a like

veritas · 11-02-2013, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Frank Metts

The social scene at 30 is suppose to be your family and close friends and then maybe once a year some place you'd never go to and for good reason...

With divorce rate up and the popularity of cougars and younger women being attracted to older men, clubs have seen a rise in age and it probably is awkward because younger women aren't clubbing looking for a Gibbs from csi look a like

This.

Tom Sparks · 11-02-2013, 11:16 AM

30

I'm 29 and once every 3 months I'll go to a club only cuz my boy is the dj n he hooks me up and even then I'm like 'why am I here.. Shoulda stayed home with my daughter'

It's just so redundant now and at this point in my life I'm tryna settle down

ribbit · 11-02-2013, 11:54 AM

I always feel like I go to spots and find it coulda been doper afterwards

Ghost1 · 11-02-2013, 12:32 PM

A club? Or a bar?

I stopped goin to clubs when i was like 22 lol....

But ill still stop thru thd pub once ir twice a month....

ribbit · 11-02-2013, 12:40 PM

Both I always feel like I coulda approached them differently and would definitely still attend one if there was something poppin but I feel like there aren't always the resources

Witty · 11-02-2013, 01:12 PM

It depends on the average age of people there.

If you look around and everyone is your age, it is cool, if you look around and everyone looks like they are closer to the womb than their first period, you need to go home.

I used to be at clubs every night for about 3-4 years, now I have had to grow up and don't really go at all anymore. I prefer just sitting in a bar with a few friends, better atmosphere.

ribbit · 11-02-2013, 02:01 PM

Hanks again witty for providing me with a creative outlet it's incredible how interested your keeping me in my social interactions in my surrounding life

Dope girl · 11-02-2013, 02:39 PM

60 and up.

Witty · 11-02-2013, 02:43 PM

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Hanks again witty for providing me with a creative outlet it's incredible how interested your keeping me in my social interactions in my surrounding life

You're welcome man, I am happy I can impact your life in such a positive way, I am humbled.

ribbit · 11-02-2013, 02:48 PM

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TYSON · 11-02-2013, 03:04 PM

I don't think its about age but about responsibilities . If u for a wife/husband with kids at hone then matterwhat age u are its time to stop...

Witty · 11-02-2013, 03:14 PM

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Seriously mate keep dropping on the net I'm so fucking overwhelmed by the beauty of your speech in action

I will, thank you for the encouragement.

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MMLRLK · 11-02-2013, 05:36 PM

shieettt as long as u aint got some other responsibilities that need taking care of then fuck it do what makes u happy

id take goin bar hoppin over clubbin any night tho. like another guy said way better atmosphere

Joe Metts · 11-02-2013, 05:41 PM

Im 28. I go like once every couple months. Stick to the bars nowadays.

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Answer He / Him / His Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 1,701 Battle Record: 20-1 Champed - Summer Classic IX - Netcees Battle League - Fight night 15 Rep Power: 14633673	How old is too old for the club? I'm 24, but when I was 21, I was going to clubs 5 - 6 times a week and got involved with too many problematic girls in the process, so I got tired of them really quick. I've only gone out once in the last couple years But how old should you be when you finally grow out of that phase? I know nobody wants to see 50-60 year old men and women in the club. Personally, I think anything over 30 is too old. You should get the last of it out of your system by 29, but then you need to grow the hell up Last edited by Answer; 11-02-2013 at 09:31 AM.

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MMLRLK Your Pusherman Join Date: Aug 2013 Posts: 133 Rep Power: 37	shieettt as long as u aint got some other responsibilities that need taking care of then fuck it do what makes u happy id take goin bar hoppin over clubbin any night tho. like another guy said way better atmosphere __________________ 'You don't want to be trapped inside with me sunshine.'

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Frank Metts Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 2,621 Battle Record: 0-1 Rep Power: 2305789	Why is inserting yourself in a social scene after 30 a bad thing? Doing it every night of the week would be bad but some clubs are directed towards an older crowd Personally I'm 32 and wouldn't step foot in a club if you paid me but I'm married with children.... if I was single I could see going once a month maybe but to something a little more grown that has a strict dress code etc etx. I did most of my clubbing ( double entendre ) before I hit 18 .. Knowing bouncers and a fake ID can take you places lol but I was sick of them by 22

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Masaii Guest Posts: n/a	Doing security in them turned me off clubs/pubs/alcohol Havent been in one since i was 19 unless it was for work.

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Tom Sparks Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2013 Posts: 887 Rep Power: 0	30 I'm 29 and once every 3 months I'll go to a club only cuz my boy is the dj n he hooks me up and even then I'm like 'why am I here.. Shoulda stayed home with my daughter' It's just so redundant now and at this point in my life I'm tryna settle down

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ribbit The deputy of nc Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: The Rodent Kingdom Posts: 514 Battle Record: 1-10 Rep Power: 7784053	I always feel like I go to spots and find it coulda been doper afterwards

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ribbit The deputy of nc Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: The Rodent Kingdom Posts: 514 Battle Record: 1-10 Rep Power: 7784053	Both I always feel like I coulda approached them differently and would definitely still attend one if there was something poppin but I feel like there aren't always the resources

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ribbit The deputy of nc Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: The Rodent Kingdom Posts: 514 Battle Record: 1-10 Rep Power: 7784053	Hanks again witty for providing me with a creative outlet it's incredible how interested your keeping me in my social interactions in my surrounding life

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ribbit The deputy of nc Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: The Rodent Kingdom Posts: 514 Battle Record: 1-10 Rep Power: 7784053	Seriously mate keep dropping on the net I'm so fucking overwhelmed by the beauty of your speech in action

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TYSON IN LOVE WITH A STRIPPER Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 3,967 Battle Record: 10-15 Rep Power: 23089122	I don't think its about age but about responsibilities . If u for a wife/husband with kids at hone then matterwhat age u are its time to stop...

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Joe Metts Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Hanover, PA Posts: 2,760 Battle Record: 14-6 Rep Power: 18112003	Im 28. I go like once every couple months. Stick to the bars nowadays.