How old is too old for the club?
 

I'm 24, but when I was 21, I was going to clubs 5 - 6 times a week and got involved with too many problematic girls in the process, so I got tired of them really quick. I've only gone out once in the last couple years

But how old should you be when you finally grow out of that phase? I know nobody wants to see 50-60 year old men and women in the club.


Personally, I think anything over 30 is too old. You should get the last of it out of your system by 29, but then you need to grow the hell up

30.

Why is inserting yourself in a social scene after 30 a bad thing? Doing it every night of the week would be bad but some clubs are directed towards an older crowd

Personally I'm 32 and wouldn't step foot in a club if you paid me but I'm married with children.... if I was single I could see going once a month maybe but to something a little more grown that has a strict dress code etc etx.

I did most of my clubbing ( double entendre ) before I hit 18 .. Knowing bouncers and a fake ID can take you places lol but I was sick of them by 22

I, of course, have never been 30. So I can't say from experience...but I always expect the social scene of 30 to be completely different than the social scene of 20. I know I took my little sister to a concert fairly recently (i cant remember the name of the band....they work kiss-like makeup and did punk/heavy rock music) but I was hanging out at the bar off to the side and two middle aged women tried to pick me up. That's just gross, man

Doing security in them turned me off clubs/pubs/alcohol

Havent been in one since i was 19 unless it was for work.

The social scene at 30 is suppose to be your family and close friends and then maybe once a year some place you'd never go to and for good reason...

With divorce rate up and the popularity of cougars and younger women being attracted to older men, clubs have seen a rise in age and it probably is awkward because younger women aren't clubbing looking for a Gibbs from csi look a like

This.

30

I'm 29 and once every 3 months I'll go to a club only cuz my boy is the dj n he hooks me up and even then I'm like 'why am I here.. Shoulda stayed home with my daughter'

It's just so redundant now and at this point in my life I'm tryna settle down

I always feel like I go to spots and find it coulda been doper afterwards

A club? Or a bar?

I stopped goin to clubs when i was like 22 lol....

But ill still stop thru thd pub once ir twice a month....

Both I always feel like I coulda approached them differently and would definitely still attend one if there was something poppin but I feel like there aren't always the resources

It depends on the average age of people there.

If you look around and everyone is your age, it is cool, if you look around and everyone looks like they are closer to the womb than their first period, you need to go home.

I used to be at clubs every night for about 3-4 years, now I have had to grow up and don't really go at all anymore. I prefer just sitting in a bar with a few friends, better atmosphere.

Hanks again witty for providing me with a creative outlet it's incredible how interested your keeping me in my social interactions in my surrounding life

60 and up.

You're welcome man, I am happy I can impact your life in such a positive way, I am humbled.

Seriously mate keep dropping on the net I'm so fucking overwhelmed by the beauty of your speech in action

I don't think its about age but about responsibilities . If u for a wife/husband with kids at hone then matterwhat age u are its time to stop...

I will, thank you for the encouragement.

Yours words will always be in my heart, when I feel down, when I am lonely, I will think of you.

shieettt as long as u aint got some other responsibilities that need taking care of then fuck it do what makes u happy

id take goin bar hoppin over clubbin any night tho. like another guy said way better atmosphere

Im 28. I go like once every couple months. Stick to the bars nowadays.