Originally Posted by anime_boners (Post 440024)

gow pls

"random people approaching each other"

NOBODY IS BOTHERED BY THIS FFS

a stranger approaching another stranger RESPECTFULLY is not frowned upon by anyone.

HARASSMENT as in, DISRESPECTFUL remarks that make ppl feel uncomfortable is what ppl take issue with.

If a girl gives off the nonverbal cues that she wants to be talked something like "Hi, I'm [anime_boners], you look real nice just want you to know, etc. <<< perfectly acceptable and successful way to meet women

"YO BABY I LIKE THEM TITS" *proceeds to follow her up dark, empty street shouting things of this nature* "FUCK YOU THEN BITCH, LEARN TO TAKE A COMPLIMENT"

^this is not acceptable

how can you not see the difference here

Originally Posted by God Of War (Post 440025)

lmao you are no different them the extremists man, soon as facts are proven n presented u pick and choose what to reply to or quit.

Originally Posted by Dominate (Post 440030)

What specifically have I said that's extreme? Quote me please.

Originally Posted by God Of War (Post 440029)

I see the difference and understand that bro

but you do realise the approach in general is being scrutinized. as I said i see this fight everyday by people with major backings, the last multi national argument i seen a few days ago was a woman should not be approached at all unless she feels she wants ot be

that makes no sense and it got up national attention and agreement. lmao how the fuck do u know someone wants ot be approached without approaching them?

Originally Posted by Dominate (Post 440032)

Not at all. At no point were we talking about politely introducing yourself. We were talking about catcalling. That's it.

@nyc, no, no troll. You're an intelligent person. Present your points. I'll listen.

Originally Posted by God Of War (Post 440031)

its not what you said its what you choose to ignore, this is about equality and i have proven beyond a shadow of a doubt, so has many scholars that feminism is now not about equality. yet you choose the facts you want to reply to and ignore others.

as i said someone like christina hoff sommers is one of the 1st wave feminists and is a very educated and smart women, she proves shit with facts u need to check her out

Originally Posted by God Of War (Post 440029)

I see the difference and understand that bro

but you do realise the approach in general is being scrutinized. as I said i see this fight everyday by people with major backings, the last multi national argument i seen a few days ago was a woman should not be approached at all unless she feels she wants ot be

that makes no sense and it got up national attention and agreement. lmao how the fuck do u know someone wants ot be approached without approaching them?

Originally Posted by Dominate (Post 440036)

You've not replied to everything I've said either. It's not intentional on my part. The pace of this discussion makes it hard to keep up with everything. PM me what you want me to address and we'll have a slower paced discussion about it. Cool?

Originally Posted by anime_boners (Post 440043)

you do know ppl well enough to know there are nonverbal cues we give one another that say "do or do not talk to me", right?

Originally Posted by God Of War (Post 440045)

the point is people can not always read people, walking up and asking or saying hi to someone is not harassment as it is being called by major feminist parties

Originally Posted by anime_boners (Post 440035)

gow look at it like this

when you go to "flirt" with a girl

think to yourself "if a dude spoke this way to my mother/sister/aunt/niece/female cousins/any female i care about, how would I react?"

if you'd react negatively, maybe not say those words?


1. how do you feel about child molesters / abusers, in most cases this is also considered a mental condition. do you pity child rapists?

2. not every rape is a man holding a woman down, beating her, and fucking her. rape AS ALREADY DISCUSSED, is also sex with a person who is too intoxicated to consent, or not awake to consent.

Many rapists who have raped women in these conditions don't consider it rape at all. this is not mental condition, but simply the results of living in a culture where this form of rape is considered by many a "grey area". which it is not. it is rape.

again use the "if someone did it to a female who is important to me how would I feel" rule. if your sister came to you and said she was drunk and some kids took advantage of her while she was half passed out and unable to give real consent would shame her for a slut or would you be asking where you can find these fucks?

Originally Posted by Dominate (Post 440047)

Show me where a major feminist party takes issue with a guy saying hello to a woman.

Originally Posted by God Of War (Post 440050)

I can show you many. as i said since this has crossed over into my field i have had to pay insanely close amounts of attention to it.

Originally Posted by Dominate (Post 440051)

So show me. I'm waiting.

Originally Posted by God Of War (Post 440045)

the point is people can not always read people, walking up and asking or saying hi to someone is not harassment as it is being called by major feminist parties

Originally Posted by anime_boners (Post 440056)

if you can't read what they want leave them alone? this is not difficult.

kinda like with mushrooms.. you can eat some, but not others.. so you don't just go eating every mushroom you see and deal with the consequences after.. you ONLY eat the one that you know is safe.

Soooo

if you don't know whether she wants your attention, leave her alone? is that so hard? the world is not based on what you want when you want it. I WANT HER SO I HAVE TO HIT ON HER EVEN IF SHE MIGHT NOT WANT ME I DON'T CARE, BECAUSE WHAT SHE WANTS DOESN'T MATTER

when you ignore/can't recognize nonverbal cues that say "no" you send a vibe that says "no doesn't meant anything to me because I want you" and this gives women huge RAPE vibes and makes them feel unsafe.

how can you seriously not get this, or say you want equality if you think it's okay to make another person feel this way simply because you're attracted to them?