What feels better to love or be loved ? - Page 2

bleak · 08-01-2018, 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Ghost1

Mr faggot?

Vammy

Ghost1 · 08-01-2018, 01:10 PM

So Mr fsggot

Hush · 08-01-2018, 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Destroyer

Depends
Are we talking about the butt?

Elaborate

Destroyer · 08-01-2018, 01:13 PM

Well I think it’s got to feel better to love in the butt than to get loved in the butt

Hush · 08-01-2018, 01:15 PM

That was deep

Ghost1 · 08-01-2018, 01:17 PM

Gone

bleak · 08-01-2018, 01:22 PM

Fair enough lol

Eŋg · 08-01-2018, 01:23 PM

ya'll some bitches

but i mean, in the interest of balance you'd want mutuality.

doesn't often work out like that, but bit of a no-brainer really.

Hush · 08-01-2018, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Eŋg

ya'll some bitches

but i mean, in the interest of balance you'd want mutuality.

doesn't often work out like that, but bit of a no-brainer really.

Pretty sure ur the bitch

veritas · 08-01-2018, 01:40 PM

I don’t know vammy lol

Ghost1 · 08-01-2018, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by veritas

I don’t know vammy lol

lmaoooo

bleak wtf r u talm bout

Destroyer · 08-01-2018, 01:43 PM

For serious tho, I’d say it’s better to love
I mean what does “to be loved” even feel like?
It’s certainly harder to define what constitutes the feeling so just because of that I’d have to say it’s better to love
It’s muxh more personal and identifiable

Ghost1 · 08-01-2018, 01:47 PM

that's a bold claim

to love is definitely more subjective but I don't think to be loved is unidentifiable... to me there is a feeling of safety in being loved

veritas · 08-01-2018, 01:54 PM

If I had to choose I would choose to love.

Ghost1 · 08-01-2018, 01:55 PM

yaknow I think it is easier....to love....than to be loved honestly

veritas · 08-01-2018, 02:05 PM

I see your point. I see that both require a level of vulnerability.

I would posit the main thesis of my choice would be that to love someone who does not love you back takes the greatest amount of character and has the greatest potential for individual and societal growth.

fair?

Ghost1 · 08-01-2018, 02:06 PM

but what about learning to love someone who you don't love but loves you?

veritas · 08-01-2018, 02:12 PM

that is the second most important. The most important is the inverse (as it is the most difficult), learning to love those who do not love you.

in other words it is much easier (but still difficult) to love someone who you don't love that loves you, then to love someone who does not love you.

so loving (for me) takes the cake over being loved.

Chill Phil · 08-01-2018, 02:15 PM

To love.

You don't always feel someone else's love for you, unless they constantly do things and gestures to show you. Which typically doesn't happen. Not all the time, anyway.

~RustyGunZ~ · 08-01-2018, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Ghost1

yaknow I think it is easier....to love....than to be loved honestly

It seems easier to emulate love for emotional satisfaction than to convince someone to spend their time emulating love towards you

It’s harder to actually love than to be loved I think. They’re both difficult though. And both can be toxic dependent on the people involved and what side you land on at any given moment.

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08-01-2018, 01:23 PM	#28
Eŋg rhyme capsule. Join Date: Sep 2018 Posts: 2,146 Rep Power: 0	ya'll some bitches but i mean, in the interest of balance you'd want mutuality. doesn't often work out like that, but bit of a no-brainer really.