a 4 yr old boy who plays with little girls toys.. - Page 3

veritas · 06-19-2013, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by God Of War

so your saying toys can make a kid gay?

I am saying that if it appears to be his natiral nature to be feminine is his likes you do not want to reinforce amd solidify that.

Simple.

Objective · 06-19-2013, 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by VERITAS

I am saying that if it appears to be his natiral nature to be feminine is his likes you do not want to reinforce amd solidify that.

Simple.

That's fucking bullshit. It's worse trying to hide shit or take away toys from the kids cuz of your own insecurities. Kids will pick up on that which might help to undermine identity issues later in life. You being the therapist and all is giving terribad advice in this matter. You should probably read up a bit about psychology in children and/or stick to what you know.

Some kids that are feminine ''in nature'' is mostly just insecure about themselves and try to do shit the right way by being gentle and careful. Give them some fucking confidence and they start tearing shit up, play soccer with the other kids and peeing on toys. I've seen that kind of development with my own eyes.

Chyeahhh!!! · 06-19-2013, 04:30 PM

get that lil nigga some GI Joe's and let him watch The Expendables or something. If you come back in the room and see Hawk hitting Ariel from the back, then you'll know eything is good. Then go do the same thing to his mom *daps*

veritas · 06-19-2013, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Objective

That's fucking bullshit. It's worse trying to hide shit or take away toys from the kids cuz of your own insecurities. Kids will pick up on that which might help to undermine identity issues later in life. You being the therapist and all is giving terribad advice in this matter. You should probably read up a bit about psychology in children and/or stick to what you know.

Some kids that are feminine ''in nature'' is mostly just insecure about themselves and try to do shit the right way by being gentle and careful. Give them some fucking confidence and they start tearing shit up, play soccer with the other kids and peeing on toys. I've seen that kind of development with my own eyes.

You are wrong.

Split · 06-19-2013, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Objective

That's fucking bullshit. It's worse trying to hide shit or take away toys from the kids cuz of your own insecurities. Kids will pick up on that which might help to undermine identity issues later in life. You being the therapist and all is giving terribad advice in this matter. You should probably read up a bit about psychology in children and/or stick to what you know.

Some kids that are feminine ''in nature'' is mostly just insecure about themselves and try to do shit the right way by being gentle and careful. Give them some fucking confidence and they start tearing shit up, play soccer with the other kids and peeing on toys. I've seen that kind of development with my own eyes.

I'd agree with Veritas on this. Showing your kid what to do is parenting

God Of War · 06-19-2013, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Split Eight

I'd agree with Veritas on this. Showing your kid what to do is parenting

lol no

guiding your child is parenting

Split · 06-19-2013, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by God Of War

lol no

guiding your child is parenting

Obv meant the same thing...

Mr. J · 06-19-2013, 05:10 PM

get him an easy bake...

Dominate · 06-19-2013, 05:20 PM

Just so everyone is on the same page, can we confirm:

- does the kid play EXCLUSIVELY with girl toys, or does he play with both girl and boy toys indiscriminately?

And

- HOW does he play with his toys? I mean playing with a Dora the explorer if she's on a rescue mission or a treasure hunt or some shit is more manly than playing with a GI Joe if he's at a tea party

I think both of these Qs are very relevant

Evolve · 06-19-2013, 05:23 PM

when my son was 5 he picked up a barbie doll.....

...she's now on maternity leave.

Objective · 06-19-2013, 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Split Eight

Obv meant the same thing...

Well, tell me how removing your kids toys because you think they're for faggots is guiding your child at all? That's taking choices for him and deciding how he shall live life, and what kind of stuff he's allowed to have fun with. There is absolutely NO reason to do so except for egotistical insecurity reasons.

@VERITAS: I'm willing to challenge you on this subject and perhaps we can get a good debate going. Go ahead and tell me how my previous post was wrong.

TYSON · 06-19-2013, 05:46 PM

Damn too much to read when high. The mama needs to be checked imo. She should be teaching him boys play with boy's toys and girls play with girls toys. Instead she supplying the boy with the shit. Wow its crazy but I agree the morals are dwindling thru the generations. Yes I agree that its not that big a deal on the child if a phase but if she feeds it beyond his age then she should be suplexed.

Geno · 06-19-2013, 05:46 PM

Lmao @ toys for knucks. Damn, this thread got more live than I expected

-pats own back

Geno · 06-19-2013, 05:47 PM

And oh ya, about that suplex.. I'm waiting for her to call. Finna go try and suplex that pussy tonight! Bangbang. I should let little man watch -show him what's really good

veritas · 06-19-2013, 05:52 PM

Before I debate I must know:

Does he only play with girl toys or does he play with both?

If offered a boy toy and a girl toy which will he prefer?

Thank you.

Dsm code 302.6

Geno · 06-19-2013, 05:54 PM

Well @ veritas.

From what I've seen he'd go for the dora toy stronger.
But I do believe he has both. I will know more after the night is over, and I shall return with info.

TYSON · 06-19-2013, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Genocide

And oh ya, about that suplex.. I'm waiting for her to call. Finna go try and suplex that pussy tonight! Bangbang. I should let little man watch -show him what's really good

Lol u sure? He might be looking at u instead....lmao

Split · 06-19-2013, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Objective

Well, tell me how removing your kids toys because you think they're for knucks is guiding your child at all? That's taking choices for him and deciding how he shall live life, and what kind of stuff he's allowed to have fun with. There is absolutely NO reason to do so except for egotistical insecurity reasons.

@VERITAS: I'm willing to challenge you on this subject and perhaps we can get a good debate going. Go ahead and tell me how my previous post was wrong.

teach your kid how you think and your values, its up to him to make whatever he wants out of them. I never said censor his thoughts. if I was playing with a car as a kid and my dad gave me a truck and said try this instead, I'd be like "ok"

Geno · 06-19-2013, 05:56 PM

Lolololololol. You might be right, in that case ill just toss him a dora the explorer doll to divert his attention. Should go over like a dog on some steak during a burlgary

Ghost1 · 06-19-2013, 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Meth

to be clear.

No its not.

And that kids a fagget. Ah well.

06-19-2013, 04:30 PM	#43
Chyeahhh!!! Saul Paul Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: remote location with a remote weapon station Posts: 6,397 Battle Record: 16-26 Rep Power: 1663348	get that lil nigga some GI Joe's and let him watch The Expendables or something. If you come back in the room and see Hawk hitting Ariel from the back, then you'll know eything is good. Then go do the same thing to his mom daps __________________ KNOW YOUR MAKER BEFORE YOU'RE MADE TO I know the ledge, his sister's a jumpoff

06-19-2013, 05:10 PM	#48
Mr. J The Clown Prince Join Date: Apr 2013 Posts: 5,023 Battle Record: 35-45 Champed - Art of Writing League Rep Power: 59349678	get him an easy bake... __________________ .....laugh....and the world laughs with you

06-19-2013, 05:20 PM	#49
Dominate Tread Lightly. Join Date: Feb 2013 Posts: 2,309 Battle Record: 26-9 Champed - Netcees Battle League - Battle Arena - Tag Team Tournament III - Tag Tournament: "Omicron Variant" Rep Power: 18197456	Just so everyone is on the same page, can we confirm: - does the kid play EXCLUSIVELY with girl toys, or does he play with both girl and boy toys indiscriminately? And - HOW does he play with his toys? I mean playing with a Dora the explorer if she's on a rescue mission or a treasure hunt or some shit is more manly than playing with a GI Joe if he's at a tea party I think both of these Qs are very relevant __________________ The Bad Guys

06-19-2013, 05:23 PM	#50
Evolve Planet of the Rapes. Join Date: Jun 2013 Posts: 258 Battle Record: 1-3 Rep Power: 3110870	when my son was 5 he picked up a barbie doll..... ...she's now on maternity leave. __________________ I'm Super Soap. You're Super Not.

06-19-2013, 05:46 PM	#53
Geno White Earl Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Philly Cat. Posts: 12,325 Battle Record: 10-15 Accomplishments - Open Mic HOF (4x) Champed - Netcees Writers League - Write Week I - Write Week 8 Rep Power: 50036758	Lmao @ toys for knucks. Damn, this thread got more live than I expected -pats own back __________________ *-A.bove T.he R.est*

06-19-2013, 05:46 PM	#52
TYSON IN LOVE WITH A STRIPPER Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 3,985 Battle Record: 10-15 Rep Power: 23089119	Damn too much to read when high. The mama needs to be checked imo. She should be teaching him boys play with boy's toys and girls play with girls toys. Instead she supplying the boy with the shit. Wow its crazy but I agree the morals are dwindling thru the generations. Yes I agree that its not that big a deal on the child if a phase but if she feeds it beyond his age then she should be suplexed.

06-19-2013, 05:47 PM	#54
Geno White Earl Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Philly Cat. Posts: 12,325 Battle Record: 10-15 Accomplishments - Open Mic HOF (4x) Champed - Netcees Writers League - Write Week I - Write Week 8 Rep Power: 50036758	And oh ya, about that suplex.. I'm waiting for her to call. Finna go try and suplex that pussy tonight! Bangbang. I should let little man watch -show him what's really good __________________ *-A.bove T.he R.est*

06-19-2013, 05:54 PM	#56
Geno White Earl Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Philly Cat. Posts: 12,325 Battle Record: 10-15 Accomplishments - Open Mic HOF (4x) Champed - Netcees Writers League - Write Week I - Write Week 8 Rep Power: 50036758	Well @ veritas. From what I've seen he'd go for the dora toy stronger. But I do believe he has both. I will know more after the night is over, and I shall return with info. __________________ *-A.bove T.he R.est*

06-19-2013, 05:56 PM	#59
Geno White Earl Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Philly Cat. Posts: 12,325 Battle Record: 10-15 Accomplishments - Open Mic HOF (4x) Champed - Netcees Writers League - Write Week I - Write Week 8 Rep Power: 50036758	Lolololololol. You might be right, in that case ill just toss him a dora the explorer doll to divert his attention. Should go over like a dog on some steak during a burlgary __________________ *-A.bove T.he R.est*