10-14-2018, 11:51 AM | #15 | |
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And if you choose to continue expanding your field for internal validation over pursuing what your talents and responsibilities would have you, it will grow. If you choose to grow the field ONLY for the external validation it will eventually wither.
The paradox is: the external validation will come naturally when it is not the sole reason for the activity. Applied here: win in the discussion because it helps train your mental sharpness, your wit, and your articulation so that you can apply this to the real world and be a better person for you and your loved ones and the people who depend on you. Not just to be able to say you won and ha ha look at me and look how I owned you.
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