How would you react to a woman proposing to you in public?

Chill Phil · 04-25-2018, 09:22 PM

My old lady keeps saying she's gonna do it...and I keep telling her that I'll say no and move out.

I dunno man...that shit doesn't sit right with me. I'm assuming NC has some progressive millennials sprinkled in here somewhere.

Yay or nay?

For Battling · 04-25-2018, 09:27 PM

So she wants to wife you up but you don’t want to be married to her?

Do you not want marriage or do you not want marriage with her?

You live with her and take care of her kids no?

Inno · 04-25-2018, 09:29 PM

Phil, if your srs. Seems like you both want something different.

Ponder that.

For Battling · 04-25-2018, 09:29 PM

I ask because I May be in the same predicament minus her wanting to propose to me

uh-oh · 04-25-2018, 09:55 PM

im the opposite of a progressive millenial but im indifferent

i don't believe in the concept of marriage but if i did i wouldn't give a shit

granted the make believe scenario where i'm considering marriage in the first place it would have to be a completely ridiculously bad bitch who leaves me alone 98 percent of the time and viciously drains my balls of jizm with her mouth puss and anus the other 2 percent of the time

but sure if fantasy was reality i wouldn't care

in reality she's just pressuring you to beat her to the punch dummy

do it or don't

Enbombz · 04-25-2018, 10:02 PM

Who cares, saves you a headache.

Schadenfreude · 04-25-2018, 10:19 PM

Embarrass her, cuz if I wanted to marry her I would be the one proposing.

All those photos of females getting down on one knee is some Bizarro World.

I'm a "Milennial" but I'm not going for that silly shit.

Candy · 04-25-2018, 11:32 PM

PUT IT IN YOUR MOUTH

Candy · 04-25-2018, 11:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chill Phil

My old lady keeps saying she's gonna do it...and I keep telling her that I'll say no and move out.

I dunno man...that shit doesn't sit right with me. I'm assuming NC has some progressive millennials sprinkled in here somewhere.

Yay or nay?

IMPRESSED

Exis · 04-25-2018, 11:45 PM

Depends who she is...

warthog. · 04-26-2018, 12:54 AM

tell that bitch if she proposes she has to pay for everything, and do everything for the wedding.

Chill Phil · 04-26-2018, 03:08 AM

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Originally Posted by For Battling

So she wants to wife you up but you don’t want to be married to her?

Do you not want marriage or do you not want marriage with her?

You live with her and take care of her kids no?

I don't really want to marry anyone. It seems more like a contract that allows court systems and lawyers to profit from it's failure. All my friends and family are getting divorces and remarrying and shit. It doesn't look like anything I'd be interested in dealing with.

I live with her and assist in taking care of her kid, yeah.

Geno · 04-26-2018, 04:51 AM

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Finnydot · 04-26-2018, 05:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Chill Phil

I don't really want to marry anyone. It seems more like a contract that allows court systems and lawyers to profit from it's failure. All my friends and family are getting divorces and remarrying and shit. It doesn't look like anything I'd be interested in dealing with.

I live with her and assist in taking care of her kid, yeah.

Quit playing with fire. I tried the whole get with a chick with a kid, then I got her knocked up. I didn't get married, and we didn't have any kind of legal record of our relationship. So she runs to the state claiming I ran out on her when she was probably fucking 8 other dudes at the time (exaggerating? Maybe, prolly not) and I'm at home with the kids. Regardless how you think about me, anyone does, that shit sucks. I almost killed her. Probably should have. I wouldn't wish that on anyone, man. Either go hard or go home. If we had been married and I was smart enough to prove she was fucking around, I maybe could have had her paying me.

Either you love her or you don't. And regardless, she's never going to believe you unless you commit. I thought having a kid would mean more than a diamond, I was wrong

And obviously someone else will marry a girl with two kids from two baby daddies because he thinks he's gonna change her.

In 10 years she'll be alone having 3 dumb ass mother fuckers paying her bills.

Shit, she does right now. Fuck that bitch.

Sharp · 04-26-2018, 06:33 AM

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Originally Posted by uh-oh

in reality she's just pressuring you to beat her to the punch dummy

do it or don't

Progressive millennial checking in

IMO, if there's nothing to be gained (insurance, death benefits, tax breaks) you should keep this the way they are.

Amen · 04-26-2018, 07:03 AM

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Originally Posted by For Battling

I ask because I May be in the same predicament minus her wanting to propose to me

So you found out it isn't your kid?

That's rough but good for you. No ties, IF you man up and kick the bitch out.

Diode · 04-26-2018, 07:52 AM

my wife would prob be p upset

Diode · 04-26-2018, 07:52 AM

or relieved i'm someone else's problem

idk

Ghost1 · 04-26-2018, 07:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chill Phil

My old lady keeps saying she's gonna do it...and I keep telling her that I'll say no and move out.

I dunno man...that shit doesn't sit right with me. I'm assuming NC has some progressive millennials sprinkled in here somewhere.

Yay or nay?

I don't like it. even behind closed doors I don't like it. aside from even the obvious traditional views I don't like this entire approach because she is also pressuring you to propose now. Its manipulative and imho harmful to the relationship to put this stigma over everything now.

I would react to this heavy handed and eliminate the idea entirely.....which it seems like you attempted to do by telling her youd move out....I guess it depends how convincing you were and or if you meant it.

another thing to consider.....are you at a point where you want to propose currently? you said you wanted to have children with her if Iirc?

Chill Phil · 04-26-2018, 09:34 AM

We're doomed. Every time she says it, and I'm like "don't ever do that," she laughs or acts as though it's funny. I'm definitely not ambiguous about my how I tell her that I'll say no.

I wouldn't mind having a kid eventually...but marriage ain't happening with anyone ever.

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uh-oh DA GOD Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canton Ohio Posts: 12,362 Battle Record: 1-0 Champed - Beat Battle II - Beat Battle V - Beat Bags Rep Power: 84181417	im the opposite of a progressive millenial but im indifferent i don't believe in the concept of marriage but if i did i wouldn't give a shit granted the make believe scenario where i'm considering marriage in the first place it would have to be a completely ridiculously bad bitch who leaves me alone 98 percent of the time and viciously drains my balls of jizm with her mouth puss and anus the other 2 percent of the time but sure if fantasy was reality i wouldn't care in reality she's just pressuring you to beat her to the punch dummy do it or don't __________________ EVERYBODY I KNOW GOT WEED OR GOT POWDER BUT I AINT GOT EITHER. GOT ALOT OF DEMONS

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Schadenfreude Dynomite.. DYNOMITE!! Join Date: Sep 2015 Posts: 1,408 Battle Record: 42-22 Champed - Netcees Battle League (2x) - BA Tag Team Titles - Lyric Olympics Rep Power: 21049081	Embarrass her, cuz if I wanted to marry her I would be the one proposing. All those photos of females getting down on one knee is some Bizarro World. I'm a "Milennial" but I'm not going for that silly shit. __________________ Aali hupatikana kwa ghali. Last edited by Schadenfreude; 04-25-2018 at 10:21 PM.

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For Battling Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2017 Posts: 3,986 Battle Record: 11-6 Rep Power: 5633912	So she wants to wife you up but you don’t want to be married to her? Do you not want marriage or do you not want marriage with her? You live with her and take care of her kids no?

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Inno Ad mini tator Join Date: Feb 2013 Posts: 10,005 Battle Record: 26-54 Champed - Lime Green Poetry Association - Black August - 1-2 Punch League Rep Power: 85899400	Phil, if your srs. Seems like you both want something different. Ponder that.

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Enbombz Not Joog Join Date: Nov 2016 Posts: 769 Battle Record: 9-5 Rep Power: 5907769	Who cares, saves you a headache.

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Exis ............ Join Date: Jul 2013 Posts: 3,938 Battle Record: 3-3 Rep Power: 0	Depends who she is...

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warthog. Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2017 Posts: 278 Rep Power: 0	tell that bitch if she proposes she has to pay for everything, and do everything for the wedding.

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Diode PR's Finest Join Date: Aug 2013 Posts: 14,156 Battle Record: 12-7 Rep Power: 85899406	my wife would prob be p upset __________________

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Chill Phil World's Heaviest Ghost Join Date: May 2015 Location: At home Posts: 2,582 Rep Power: 48431847	We're doomed. Every time she says it, and I'm like "don't ever do that," she laughs or acts as though it's funny. I'm definitely not ambiguous about my how I tell her that I'll say no. I wouldn't mind having a kid eventually...but marriage ain't happening with anyone ever. __________________ Drunk in the club, let a nigga say somethin'... I'll have him fall victim like the nigga base jumpin',