Privacy in marriage - Page 4

TYSON · 08-13-2014, 03:13 PM

If I beat the niggas ass I got to worry bout confrontation all the time and make it hard for my daughter to get comfortable in this situation.

Witty · 08-13-2014, 03:15 PM

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Originally Posted by TYSON

After a lot of arguing I got the passcode and yes he was hitting on her and she turned him down everytime. She didn't want me to get mad because it's not about us it's about the child. So now I got figure out how to check this nigga without making it hard for my step daughter to see her father. One problem after another.

Does it matter? I know it's a pride thing and I can't say I'd react much differently but if she's turning him down you have nothing to worry about.

Confronting him will only make things more complicated for your step daughter...I understand wanting to warn him off tho, any man would...but you gotta put the child first my man.

TYSON · 08-13-2014, 03:23 PM

Easier said then done

Witty · 08-13-2014, 03:32 PM

Word.

Zen · 08-13-2014, 03:34 PM

This thread is why I'm not married. I can't trust anybody.

Witty · 08-13-2014, 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Zen

This thread is why I'm not married. I can't trust anybody.

I have only trusted one girl, it's pretty cool to feel like you have someone who has your back no matter what, but it is very unrealistic...the only person you can trust is you.

Most people are disloyal by force of habit...we are a selfish species.

Zen · 08-13-2014, 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Witty

I have only trusted one girl, it's pretty cool to feel like you have someone who has your back no matter what, but it is very unrealistic...the only person you can trust is you.

Most people are disloyal by force of habit...we are a selfish species.

All of this is true.

From my experience the closer I've gotten to a person the further we drifted apart. All of the little things we did just started to annoy the other person to death.

I'll get married when I'm thirty. That's the perfect time, I think.

big baby · 08-13-2014, 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Zen

This thread is why I'm not married. I can't trust anybody.

zen yewr like 16 yearsold stfu idiyote

dull boy · 08-13-2014, 04:54 PM

It's less about trust and more about expectation. You may be stoic, and she likes that, but she may also like something more comforting and understanding. Denial of desire, or suppression, leads to resentment towards what's perceived as what's causing the suppression, or fixation for what's desired. Denial is a powerful aphrodisiac, and the grass is always greener philosophy, along with forbidden fruit and a growing consensus that we owe it to ourselves to indulge... it makes it hard to meet the expectations of a traditional relationship. I've been with girls who wanted me to play a role, which is what most people want. Some idealized version of what they think they need. What you have to find is someone who you can connect with, so that the expectations are closely related and well understood. That's how trust builds, I think. @Zen

namix · 08-13-2014, 04:57 PM

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Originally Posted by TYSON

@namix I got what need out of this. A objective pov. Close thread.....

i dont fucking close threads

asking me to do so makes me want to do opposite of whatever they asked me to do in the future

so i have temporarily stickied your thread as a reminder

Zen · 08-13-2014, 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by big baby

zen yewr like 16 yearsold stfu idiyote

Why do we have to keep meeting like this?

I don't actually want to fight you, mustachio. Beardichio and mustachio can be allies. Don't be Kobe.

Meth · 08-13-2014, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by namix

i dont fucking close threads

asking me to do so makes me want to do opposite of whatever they asked me to do in the future

so i have temporarily stickied your thread as a reminder

LOL

TYSON · 08-13-2014, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by namix

i dont fucking close threads

asking me to do so makes me want to do opposite of whatever they asked me to do in the future

so i have temporarily stickied your thread as a reminder

Lol think back to how many times I have asked this of u.....none....save the examples for niggas who do it all the time... @Aero

Witty · 08-13-2014, 05:12 PM

I don't understand why there's a problem with asking a mod to close a thread tbh, unless it's a blatant troll, isn't that part and parcel of what comes with running a site?

I love you tho namix.

namix · 08-13-2014, 05:30 PM

why should topics ever be closed in a discussion forum

unless it's like violating laws or some shit

namix · 08-13-2014, 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by TYSON

Lol think back to how many times I have asked this of u.....none....save the examples for niggas who do it all the time... @Aero

oh yea man, aero is am embarassmant though, he makes an example out of himself lol

your request just was the final straw though - i will de-sticky it once the nba schedule is released yo

TYSON · 08-13-2014, 05:35 PM

So u acting like a bitch???!!!!! Lol it's cool I'm not really caring. Buttfuck u tho.

namix · 08-13-2014, 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by TYSON

So u acting like a bitch???!!!!! Lol it's cool I'm not really caring. Buttfuck u tho.

why you getting snippy

i dont even know who you are

Meth · 08-13-2014, 08:01 PM

Nam throwing down his foot itt

StarFaggot · 08-13-2014, 08:26 PM

You don't know Tyson? Is this even your site anymore? Guess you've been under Lebron's sac too much to notice anything else recently.

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Witty Lime Life Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 16,978 Battle Record: 30-41 Accomplishments - Only Slightly Retarded Champed - Lyric Olympics - Summer Classic Rep Power: 85235118	I don't understand why there's a problem with asking a mod to close a thread tbh, unless it's a blatant troll, isn't that part and parcel of what comes with running a site? I love you tho namix. __________________ He listens to voices inside of his mind Explicit and poisonous violent crime.

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08-13-2014, 03:13 PM	#61
TYSON IN LOVE WITH A STRIPPER Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 3,967 Battle Record: 10-15 Rep Power: 23089122	If I beat the niggas ass I got to worry bout confrontation all the time and make it hard for my daughter to get comfortable in this situation.

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TYSON IN LOVE WITH A STRIPPER Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 3,967 Battle Record: 10-15 Rep Power: 23089122	Easier said then done

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Zen Arm the Homeless Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 4,102 Battle Record: 22-24 Champed - Art of Writing League Rep Power: 35079722	This thread is why I'm not married. I can't trust anybody.

08-13-2014, 04:54 PM	#69
dull boy consults Lloyd Join Date: Aug 2013 Posts: 4,053 Battle Record: 0-8 Champed -1-2 Punch League Roast Rep Power: 39345604	It's less about trust and more about expectation. You may be stoic, and she likes that, but she may also like something more comforting and understanding. Denial of desire, or suppression, leads to resentment towards what's perceived as what's causing the suppression, or fixation for what's desired. Denial is a powerful aphrodisiac, and the grass is always greener philosophy, along with forbidden fruit and a growing consensus that we owe it to ourselves to indulge... it makes it hard to meet the expectations of a traditional relationship. I've been with girls who wanted me to play a role, which is what most people want. Some idealized version of what they think they need. What you have to find is someone who you can connect with, so that the expectations are closely related and well understood. That's how trust builds, I think. @Zen

08-13-2014, 05:35 PM	#77
TYSON IN LOVE WITH A STRIPPER Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 3,967 Battle Record: 10-15 Rep Power: 23089122	So u acting like a bitch???!!!!! Lol it's cool I'm not really caring. Buttfuck u tho.