Is it gay if your girlfriend puts a finger up your ass?

[dull boy]

You appear to be deeper than that. Why is this a subject you don't investigate more? Primal urges aren't always right. Sometimes I have urges to hit people in the face.

[Witty]

Originally Posted by dull boy

You appear to be deeper than that. Why is this a subject you don't investigate more? Primal urges aren't always right. Sometimes I have urges to hit people in the face.

Because if you read my posts you will see that I have stated it isn't an issue at all, if I felt like fucking a man I would fuck a man, I don't have that desire so I do not...the initial attraction needs to be there, I don't buy all of this 'finding yourself sexually' stuff because I believe sexuality is on far too high of a pedestal, it isn't a big issue at all but yet it is made into one...I don't want to fuck a man, so I don't fuck a man...whether I would like it if I got into that position or not is irrelevant because I have no desire to get into that position with another man, it makes me feel uncomfortable to even think about because I was just not born that way inclined, so to force myself to go there just to see if I like it would require a lie about my own sexuality, which I am not prepared to do, the only reason I fuck women is because my body tells me to do so, and I find them pleasurable to look at, I do not find men pleasurable to look at and that is impossible to overlook, I do not find them attractive and my body nor mind has any impulse to pursue any sexual activity...I see no reason to force myself to do so.