A masculine thread about love (NO ITS NOT A PARADOX YOU FAGGOTS) (neckbeards need not enter)

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Originally Posted by Masaii

Okay well when im in a partnership i am a very giving person ad am the typical 'nice guy'. Now in my experience aussie women take advantage of that and seem to think that kindness is a weakness in men. Asian women appreciate that kindness and reciprocate accordingly. They are more giving of their emotions and caring instead of the constant attitude and self entitlement that aussies possess.

Imo of course...

Indeed.

Women don't want to hear 'yes' to everything. Women want men who stand their ground and have a mind of their own. They like strong men who can be kind if it is warranted, but also who can be stern when it is required. Reward system. If a woman acts out, they want a man who will put them in their place and call them out on their bullshit. Conversely, if they behave you should reward them. Respect has to be earned, not given.

@Muff there's no reason to hate women, man. They are just wired differently than men. Not worse, just different. And you are correct. They cannot detect how a man truly feels inside unless of course he lets his true feelings come out in some fashion. I've known plenty of alphas who think of women as pathetic creatures and will disparage them behind their backs at every opportunity. They still LOVE them and cannot detect the slightest resentment. Or perhaps they don't want to. It's funny because they will tell you that they are insightful and have 'instincts' when it comes to misogynistic men. They will tell you the reason you haven't found love is because you hate women and women can 'sense' that.

Never judge a woman based on her words, but only her actions. What women do and say are two entirely different things. What women say they want and what they actually want are not one and the same. Women will say they want a 'nice guy' who's kind and gentle and listens and all that, but watch who they actually go for. I'm not saying you have to be a douche, but you shouldn't be a complete pushover either. There's a balance. It's just that most douches fall on the more attractive side of that balance from a woman's standpoint. They aren't perfect, they know they have problems, but they still have some of the characteristics that they like in a man.

I feel like I've been saying the same thing over and over again on these forums. It's pretty obvious the way things are and the way women think and truly feel inside. You just have to take the red pill and accept reality. Then you can only improve your chances of finding happiness from there.

Good luck.