My new girl hates how much time I spend using my left brain

[Badweather]

Which Ironically is aware of patterns and is analytical. She says I'm cold sometimes, and doesn't feel like I'm listening. I told her that I've heard it in the past, and that this will keep being brought up until she's fed up and wants to move on. She hit me with the "oh so you're a fucking psychic now? Don't compare me to your last girlfriend, we're totally different people. I'm just communicating with you, so you understand and we can move on. "

I was like "I'm not psychic but this is the second time this topic has come up. The only way we learn is from our past. I understand you and my past girlfriends are different but it's the same pattern. If a brown cat hunches it's back, hisses at me and bites me, should I totally ignore those warning signs with a new white cat, simply because the cats are different? I'm not psychic, let's just stay on the topic that you think I'm cold sometimes, and it's not even something I decide to be. "

Then she doesn't want to talk about it anymore. No more fighting she says.


Smh. I thought things were fucking grand.