[Witty]

I wish you well Finny. But I think your way of approaching problems has to dramatically change if you are going to manage to build a real secure life. I do hope you get there, we all have to grow and change at times, I've had to do it many times in the past and I'm sure I'll have to do it many times in the future. It's easy to get stuck in a rut, but it's hard to get out of it, one small positive change at a time turns in to a whole new life.