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Originally Posted by Objective
I wrote a long paragraph and figured it was tl;dr. Either way; Beating your kids does fuck all, timeouts do nothing as well, neither of these methods work unless you do it properly. Explaining the kid/s why a certain thing is bad and make sure they understand why is what I've had success with. Different punishments along with explenations for whatever happened is the best way to approach a certain situation. Psychology is key. Understand the kid and talk in a language that makes him/her understand you and the kid will listen to you on mostly anything.
''Family will be there when the whole world is against you.'' Dude, that's clichè'd as fuck and anything but real to a shitload of people, myself included.
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To each its own. I was raised old school and no its not for everyone as my mother found out with my younger brother. I don't really disagree with your method as long as it works but when I see parents begging their kids to listen to them or do something that shit pisses me off. Seems like parents kiss there kids ass which is a big no no for me. Are the whooping kids method flawed yes but so is the method u said. No I was not beat/abused I was disciplined. If your kid tells u to shut up they deserve they ass whooped if your kid hits u they deserve they ass whooped. I went to school with this mexican kid in elementary his name was silverado (name says all)and he literally used to beat his mama up in by the 5th grade no bullshitting.
About the family thing. That's fact atleast with my family. I'm sorry u think different but my family is loyal sorry u haven't experienced that.