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Originally Posted by Fracture
Yea he was the most grounded person I've ever met. I appreciate the kind words for real
@ Diffy, I'm not so obtuse that venting on the Interne goes without cynicism. But sometimes that's a decent a payoff when the alternative is bogging down friends or fam |
Yeah, you do you, and I'll say fuck all to this thread. I just think that the best healing comes from within.
Just live your life how you feel how your father wanted, and that will be weight off your shoulders.
I lost my mother at birth, and my father at five... I'm not saying its the same situation, because I didn't understand death until a couple years later. When I grasped the concept later on, I felt twice as bad as if I would have then. It was too late to grieve and it still be socially acceptable. I just had to look forward and keep trudging. I imagine that my father wouldn't want himself to obstruct my own progress.
I don't know your opinions of the after life, but even if you're an Atheist, he still lives on in you apparently, because you are having such a hard time getting over it. Change that into positive energy, and change other's lives how he changed yours.
That's how I was consoled, anyhow.