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Originally Posted by Immaculate
But on a good note, consider that baby of yours a blessing. Children are blessings.
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Are you fucking kidding me? THE WORLD IS ALREADY CROWDED! A child can both be a blessing and a curse. It all boils down to the parents.
Tbh, it seems like Stikta is ready for the comitment and the sacrifices that needs to be made, but is the chick ready for it? Nah'mean? A lot of shit to put into consideration before even thinking about getting a baby. The talk they're going to have is paramount for the future of their child.
And please, for the love of God and everything holy that I don't really give a shit about; Check out the nearby daycares and schools on some investigative detective shit. I'm not even joking when saying that daycares can be extremely fucked up to the point it'll give your child long lasting mental effects, and shit that may make the transition to a school environment hard as fuck. Daycares is important. Don't fuck it up by assuming a daycare is great just because it looks nice.
Source; I've worked in a daycare for 2 years and been a calling assistant for 2-3 others for 1-2 years, been to several lectures about mental health in kids and daycare environments etc. The daycare I worked 100% at knew the nearby daycares pretty well. You'd be amazed by how bad some of them could be. We had meetings every third month on how to improve the environment to our kids, we discussed situations etc. Believe me when I say that this is crucial for a great daycare and that some daycares just don't give a fuck about this. Make sure that the daycare workers care about what they do. @
c.d.m. to confirm that the future of the mental health in kids can be weakened if the daycare is bad. Small daycares is your best option if it's possible to get your kid in one in your area (20-60 kids > 61-100+).
Either way, if you're going to keep the child (wich it seems like atm); Congratulations man! And best of luck. You got a whole bunch of shit to look forward too. :)