If you chill with her, you'll prolly smash the first time you guys drink together
but don't try to drink immediately!
hang in public places first and don't act like you wanna smash. be flirty, but do not insist anything. do not openly pursue anything while you guys hang out for lunch and stuff
Then one day she will call you in the evening. keep oin mind that she has a husband that she argues with. Keep that in mind when she calls you in the evenings. Pick up on her hints but don't look too much into anything. Remember, you don't wanna cheat or nothing like that.
If she seems upset, hey, invite her over.
"I'm just chillin watchin a movie... Imma be up for a while... prolly head to bed early since my wife is out"
Have the room lit low, have a movie on already.... make it look like you ain't plan nothin
and just sip on the henny. you can play it two ways
either have the henny full in the cup with the ginger ale, or do like I do on occasion, and have a little bit left when she gets there
then go get the bottle after she gets comfy, and pour yourself another drink
as you walk back to the kitchen, turn around like "oh yea my bad you didn't want anything to drink did you?"
but she will prolly ask what you drinking before you need to do that
most females drink half their drinks, make sure to put two shots in her cup with ice, then the soda/juice. maybe some molly. she won't even know it
you should know what to do from there