The choice is who you pick as a partner but in no way shape or form did any of you heterosexuals wake up one day and say " you know what I think I'm going to like females yup that's who I'm going to like "
No no no your instincts that you are born with led you in that direction, I know straight men who act stereotypical gay and when I say stereotypical I'm referring to what some white knuckle alabamian would see as not manly activities, soft voices more feminine roles but are straight as well.
It's like saying a hermaphrodite chooses which organ is more dominant in the body, or what they would want to identify as later in life, it's all instinct and you are born with that
You do not choose who or what sex you are attracted to, from the time your born to the time your interested in someone in that way nothing can change in your body that drastically other than trauma that will skew your judgement on who or what your attracted to.
The choice parts comes in on when you want to act on those instincts and that's where your confused... and that's societies fault for making people feel bad about whom their attracted to. But your either born wired to like men, women, both or neither ...
You don't just wake up in your late teens and say you choose to be a homosexual, you wake up in your late teens and say " I'm ready to show the world who I really am " avg age someone comes out is 19... For obvious reasons
Most gay men have had sex with a female, most teen pregnancy are actually girls who identify themselves as a lesbian or bisexual but either are abusing substances or trying to fit in with society and are careless.
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