yo
i know a nigga that acts gay af but he's been in a yr long relationship w/ a chick. and his voice is feminine, he does his hair, etc. we both were in band yo and he dressed weird but son was cool. i think its more of a choice g certain things u cant control like your voice but u pick who u want to be with and what to label yourself as. what u alluded to sounds stereotypical like "cause u do this, u are this". its like saying cause dg dark, shes black when it could be some uncle ruckus type shit. most of the ppl who try to understand why gay ppl have become gay are straight tbh and we throw stereotypes all around. we could ask gay ppl why they are that way if we as a society didnt run them away. i use the term faggot but never had a problem with gays, i use that just as i say nigger. ive seen homosexuals use faggot more than me.
also, u can think back to your childhood and remember doing some gay ass shit, joe probably could too. then either your parents try to tell u its not right to do it on some baby'ing shit or u grew out of it/ that thought.
@
Frank Metts