it's one thing to say you cheated and regret it, it's another thing to say you think cheating is perfectly OK. For me, when I was in college and had a gf back home, the long distance thing was sack and I was partying, doing a lot of drugs, etc etc. Not justifying cheating, but it's just what happened. I'm def not proud of it. That last year of college was a whirlwind of personal highs and lows, cheating being one of the many low points. That's the breaks. You learn, you mature, you adapt. Now I'm super direct and upfront with my girlfriend, and can honestly say I've never done any thing remotely shady with other females in the two years we've been dating. For that, I'm proud of myself. I don't think you know how to be a good person till you've been a piece of shit, but that's just me. I'd like to think my piece of shit days are behind me.
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Dominate I still want a shot at your hypothetical female relatives.