a 4 yr old boy who plays with little girls toys..
 

..is that normal, or nah?

Cause I met this chick the other night, her son has dora the damn explorer. The littlemermaid and all different kinds of girls toys. Wtf @ the selection I saw. And of course the mom puts it off on him, but maybe she had more to do with it than she let on -rite? I mean I don't know yo.

Thoughts?

I don't think it's a huge deal.

I think trying to get him off of them would be good, and if he refuses any "boy" toys or to give up the "girl" toys than you may want to revisit the problem later.

I would not have him continue in it.....or elst effiminate later.

@VERITAS

You might be right, but still, when I was four dog, I wanted to be he-man and shit, not fucking my little pony. I had the damn toys, the sword and shit. I was he man for real. This lil niggah is a red headed irish boy running around with dora in his hands, and little purple dora scarfs on his neck. Iono. Ill let it slide for now, maybe mom pushed his attention the wrong way to though. Right? Like I mean, single mom. Only child is a boy, mom likes dora right? Fuck it. Its late, I dnt even know why this shit just crossed my mind lol

does this boy have an older sister?
just read the above post...first off why tf is mom purchasing female toys..or is she being gifted them?
and i agree w Veritas. @VERITAS at what age does the genital and phalic phase begin again?
i think the prior is around that age...he houldstart identifying w male figures...esp w a single mom imo.

He's four.

Unless the mum is actually pushing these kinds of toys on him I don't see a problem, - let him play with w/e the fuck toys he wants to. It doesn't make him "pre-gay"

I got a cousin that's 15 now I think, when she was like 8-10 she was theeee biggest tomboy. She was never into barbies and my little pony and all that. Used to play with like GI Joe and lego and shit. She dressed up in superman costumes lol. Now she's past puberty and she's a very girly girl. It's just phases kids go through. it means shit for what they're gonna do later in life

Was basically getting at what Dom said, tbc.

Been meaning to work this out for the longest. WTF is "tbc"?

to be clear.

thanks

i thought it was 2 b certain...anyways

girls exhibit tom boy behavior, especially if they have older or similiar aged male syblings...then males showing effiminant behavior and later deviating from that behavior as females do.

genetically speaking xy is a mutation (or recessive - depending how u look at it) of an x chromosome...and estrogen is present in both males n femles while testosterone is not produced to the same degree if sexual activity is at normal lvls

clarify: females have more estrogen, yes but males produce like 20x testosterone of females.

Well, that was just something from my experience, but I'm guessing I could google this shit and find dozens of parents who had a boy that played with girl toys and turned out fine

im sure, everything is truely bio-psycho-social

The youth may very possibly turn into a fagget. Super glue him to a chair and put him through countless dragon ball z marathons to cure this faggetry.

DBZ is dope though. For real.

^^^LOL word i can't wait until they dub the new movie looks flames tbreal

i think i seen one dbz movie when i was like really mest up...lol...im like a generation above that whole dbz craze...

a 4 year old don't gender relate toys. he/she sees a toy thinks its interesting and plays with it.

its really nothing to worry about.

i think thats around the age where sexual identity begins @ gow...but like i said begins...and oppertive word is think cuz im not sure, thats why i tagged veritas with my question about phases.