Your Ex Wants To Remain FWB....
 

Would you say yes or no?

Yea, I was/currently in this situation.

Only if she lets you cum in her face

Lmfao... here comes the ridiculous answers.

That's real talk

Na...

Its more like I want something she gives it and she wants something I give it.

I had this deal for a while with an ex who was somewhat still in love with me even though I had never really been in love with her (which I told her when I broke up with her because I'm a shitty person).

Anyway, here's what happened: We had a lot of sex, more than we did when we were dating. I'm talking every time we saw each other, which was frequently because we lived close by and had many mutual friends. We did it in a friend's bathroom at a party just because. And the sex was better, both because we were so comfortable with each other's bodies after all that experience and because there were no fuzzy emotions. She was in love with me to a degree, but she understood what we were there for, and that love probably was more physical than anything.

So that sounds great, right?

Well, here's what happened: Neither of us moved on while this arrangement was going on. Then I got a job and moved halfway across the country. Within four months, she was dating the guy she's probably going to marry. He's terrific and so much better for her than I ever was. I'm thrilled for them. And I got better ass myself, albeit less frequently. I still haven't found real love (probably because I'm a shitty person), but I've definitely been closer with girls I met after we stopped fucking than I ever was with her.

My feeling is that the friends-with-benefits scenario harbors apathy toward finding something real and better. But having sex regularly is pretty great.

Damn.. thanks for the honest answer. Its been 8 months sense the break up and still have sex frequently but never really looked for anything else. This is probably whats holding me back from moving on to be honest.

Bad idea. Of all the fuckbuddies I had, the one that went most awry was with my ex. It's very easy to fall into dating again, and makes for many ruinous nights out. Pussy is great and all, but unless you're trying to get back together with her, I'd say move on. Pound a bunch of sloppy bitches until you find something better.

Well I already been doing others sense the breakup (1 is her friend and the other is back from highschool days) but IDK. lol

Yes, u stay friends w/ benefits.

man its never a good idea...despite how g someone claims to be someone is eventually going to try to catch a feeling or two and its going ot turn out shitty

its not worth it

I say beat n keep beating bc sliding is good

but after the relationship ends deaden the attachment n just treat her like a beat n separate out the feelings of attachment

hard but possible

do u tho

if you two had real feelings, its not a good idea

there's a lot of cut buddies out there