a 4 yr old boy who plays with little girls toys..
 

..is that normal, or nah?

Cause I met this chick the other night, her son has dora the damn explorer. The littlemermaid and all different kinds of girls toys. Wtf @ the selection I saw. And of course the mom puts it off on him, but maybe she had more to do with it than she let on -rite? I mean I don't know yo.

Thoughts?

I don't think it's a huge deal.

I think trying to get him off of them would be good, and if he refuses any "boy" toys or to give up the "girl" toys than you may want to revisit the problem later.

I would not have him continue in it.....or elst effiminate later.

@VERITAS

You might be right, but still, when I was four dog, I wanted to be he-man and shit, not fucking my little pony. I had the damn toys, the sword and shit. I was he man for real. This lil niggah is a red headed irish boy running around with dora in his hands, and little purple dora scarfs on his neck. Iono. Ill let it slide for now, maybe mom pushed his attention the wrong way to though. Right? Like I mean, single mom. Only child is a boy, mom likes dora right? Fuck it. Its late, I dnt even know why this shit just crossed my mind lol

does this boy have an older sister?
just read the above post...first off why tf is mom purchasing female toys..or is she being gifted them?
and i agree w Veritas. @VERITAS at what age does the genital and phalic phase begin again?
i think the prior is around that age...he houldstart identifying w male figures...esp w a single mom imo.

He's four.

Unless the mum is actually pushing these kinds of toys on him I don't see a problem, - let him play with w/e the fuck toys he wants to. It doesn't make him "pre-gay"

I got a cousin that's 15 now I think, when she was like 8-10 she was theeee biggest tomboy. She was never into barbies and my little pony and all that. Used to play with like GI Joe and lego and shit. She dressed up in superman costumes lol. Now she's past puberty and she's a very girly girl. It's just phases kids go through. it means shit for what they're gonna do later in life

Was basically getting at what Dom said, tbc.

Been meaning to work this out for the longest. WTF is "tbc"?

to be clear.

thanks

i thought it was 2 b certain...anyways

girls exhibit tom boy behavior, especially if they have older or similiar aged male syblings...then males showing effiminant behavior and later deviating from that behavior as females do.

genetically speaking xy is a mutation (or recessive - depending how u look at it) of an x chromosome...and estrogen is present in both males n femles while testosterone is not produced to the same degree if sexual activity is at normal lvls

clarify: females have more estrogen, yes but males produce like 20x testosterone of females.

Well, that was just something from my experience, but I'm guessing I could google this shit and find dozens of parents who had a boy that played with girl toys and turned out fine

im sure, everything is truely bio-psycho-social

The youth may very possibly turn into a fagget. Super glue him to a chair and put him through countless dragon ball z marathons to cure this faggetry.

DBZ is dope though. For real.

^^^LOL word i can't wait until they dub the new movie looks flames tbreal

i think i seen one dbz movie when i was like really mest up...lol...im like a generation above that whole dbz craze...

a 4 year old don't gender relate toys. he/she sees a toy thinks its interesting and plays with it.

its really nothing to worry about.

i think thats around the age where sexual identity begins @ gow...but like i said begins...and oppertive word is think cuz im not sure, thats why i tagged veritas with my question about phases.

there sexual awareness begins like in there first year and by a couple years old they know if there a boy or girl or etc but it still doesnt mean they register that its not ok to play with certain toys then with others lol a toy is a toy to a child


Also I know they claim it does but i seen kids who played with every toy possible that didnt end up fucked up

word ur right 97% of the time i say... still this particular situ is odd bc lil man is the only child...id understand more if he had like an older sister n those toys were handed down...but being the only child why is mom doing that to lil man...she like conducting an experiment or suttin'...shts just weird.

when i was 4 i was playin with teenage mutant ninja turtles, he-man swords n action figures and t-rex toys...my sister whose a yr n half younger then me had barbies and like betty boop dolls n sht...i played with mine, she played with hers, or i destroyed hers...i dont recall ever actively playing with her sht cept 4 destructive purposes...however my sister would play with my sht...same with clothing...i would NEVER wear her clothing, but she would like rock my shirts n sht...thats just the way it works.

He'll be a Packer when he gets older, & it won't be in Green Bay my g.

lol @ dbz cures gayness...

kids will play with rocks and empty milk boxes...
they don't give a fuck.

if shorty exhibits feminine sexuality in other forms like an exaggerated switch when hes walking, or female mannerisms likely picked up from his mother then you can do like I would do and just hang out with moms more often around the kid. maybe he just doesnt know what a man is supposed to do. to be cautious I'd get what I want out of moms, and then barbeque in public with my fam-friendly niggas, to be clean, and show lil man what it is ta be manly, fire-grilled steaks, fat blunts, and beer. to be positive...

this is real shit lol

Me and my friends used to attach barbies to fireworks...it was a great fun. Although one day a dog ran over and lifted the firework in its mouth and everyone thought his face was gonna explode but I guess he sensed something was not right and dropped it before it went off.

The End.

P.S. - Is say give the kid a year or so, to see if he grows out of it, may just be a phase

yep,the old "ignore it until it gets better but if it gets worse in the meantime then at least nobody saw me talking to it so we can just deny knowledge of it" tactic... very good sir (not)

You're talking like there's a chance this will lead to him being a serial killer lol worst case scenario he turns out gay. No need to get all obsessive about the shit...let him be himself, young kids are the only people who can pretty much do whatever. the fuck they want, let him enjoy that shit.

Genocide just by Lil man some g. I. Joes it's a win win... Kid benefits n mom's will appreciate ur interest n will reciprocate

Serial killer or gay lineage i unno which is worse

some say that sexual confusion leads to much worse things than the original ailment suggests. @Witty you can't cure gay away. with the subjects help it can be trained into hiding but you can't really cure out gayness, it's not a disease so much as an appetite...
hard to explain in simple sentences the varied opinions that lead to my beliefs...
but if sexual identity is genetic and independant of sexual organs, then none of us can say one is right and the other is wrong. I am not here to do that.

but in the case of exactly what I said when I said wtf I said, I am a hunnid percent correct bitch. some lil niggas just don't know how big niggas act. children learn from their environments and if momma doesnt have niggas around he aint gone see niggas to emuilate thus he acts like momma.
don't mean he wants dudes, just means he doesnt know how to act like anything else.
duh.

For sure, and you know much more than me on this subject, fuck do I know about kids lol So I'll concede to your argument.

Call me a bitch again tho

See what happen

DOOOO ITTTT

4-6 years......with a second cycle from 12-18 from my experience.

The point is this: if this effeminancy is not corrected it can make the boy a queer or at very least a sissy.

so your saying toys can make a kid gay?

Nah dude.

Stop it.

For a kid, playing is playing, toys are toys.

Whether its with barbie and ken, dora, diego or the ninja turtles.

it doesnt matter.

Playing with Barbie ain't gonna make u think Ken's hot? lol wtf

didn't read anything except title ur kids a homo

its not a big deal

esp dora dog are you crazy?? she is ill for a little kid

lol

kids have imagination too he's gonna just imagine that its a chick from preschool that he doesn't like and go to WAR with her

This motherfucker and that Dominate dude speaks the truth.

Not to mention, if ya'll try telling a kid to not do this'n'that and he/she doesn't understand wtf is going on most of the time the chances are bigger that they'll turn out to be nervous motherfuckers and self conscious as fuck later in their life. Which I believe often leads to a ''side-effect'' and reasons to why some kids gets experimental with both sexes throughout their teens. So; If you're a homophobe you're better off letting him play with that girly shit instead of raising the chances of him becoming an emo/goth with horrible self confidence cuz you were afraid he was gay at age 4.

Let the kids do whatever the fuck they want and figure out who they are without you questioning them like you don't love your kids unconditionally or some shit.

My little cuz was obsessed with dora when he was 3-4

dog he be having gfs now and he's like 9 years old

it probably helped him