What feels better to love or be loved ?
 

Curious

Getting your dick sucked while watching ESPN.

If you would allow me my perfect answer I would say a dynamo of both. Each furlong the other.

If you will not accept this answer let me know

Totally agree dude .



Loving is very freeing and powerful


But being loved is so uplifting and gives me a feeling of infinite potential

We talking romantic love?

Cuz I love helping people more than anything, you could consider that a type of love right?

I know that I am a lame married guy, but I noticed that once I started focusing on how good I was making her feel, instead of how good it felt to me, that it acted as like a natural performance enhancer. I do not have any hard science behind this, just anecdotal.

I take cialis for fun

I agree ... Both is key

I also like the Greek view of defining the different types of love

https://lonerwolf.com/different-types-of-love/

For fun? I take it to punish women.

It’s better for me to love. I already love myself enough.

does it work?

This is dope. AGAPE

The ultimate

To take a long hit off a crackpipe

Fuck yea

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I owe u for the book

I have zero admin capabilities and from one post I can tell this u Mr faggot.... Unreal....u have managed to transcend fsggotism

Gotcha

Tbf @Ghost1 he joined the discord and veritas vouched. Idk how much weight that holds

Mr faggot?

Depends
Are we talking about the butt?

Vammy

So Mr fsggot

Elaborate

Well I think it’s got to feel better to love in the butt than to get loved in the butt

That was deep

Gone

Fair enough lol

ya'll some bitches

but i mean, in the interest of balance you'd want mutuality.

doesn't often work out like that, but bit of a no-brainer really.

Pretty sure ur the bitch

I don’t know vammy lol

lmaoooo

bleak wtf r u talm bout

For serious tho, I’d say it’s better to love
I mean what does “to be loved” even feel like?
It’s certainly harder to define what constitutes the feeling so just because of that I’d have to say it’s better to love
It’s muxh more personal and identifiable

that's a bold claim

to love is definitely more subjective but I don't think to be loved is unidentifiable... to me there is a feeling of safety in being loved

If I had to choose I would choose to love.

yaknow I think it is easier....to love....than to be loved honestly

I see your point. I see that both require a level of vulnerability.

I would posit the main thesis of my choice would be that to love someone who does not love you back takes the greatest amount of character and has the greatest potential for individual and societal growth.

fair?

but what about learning to love someone who you don't love but loves you?

that is the second most important. The most important is the inverse (as it is the most difficult), learning to love those who do not love you.

in other words it is much easier (but still difficult) to love someone who you don't love that loves you, then to love someone who does not love you.

so loving (for me) takes the cake over being loved.

To love.

You don't always feel someone else's love for you, unless they constantly do things and gestures to show you. Which typically doesn't happen. Not all the time, anyway.

It seems easier to emulate love for emotional satisfaction than to convince someone to spend their time emulating love towards you

It’s harder to actually love than to be loved I think. They’re both difficult though. And both can be toxic dependent on the people involved and what side you land on at any given moment.