If she let you touch it


Touch what?!

You can turn right back around and sue them though


“Touch it” has no meaning to it. You weren’t specific and said touch her ass or anything so you’re technically in the clear. Definitely can sue those assholes fin

Ummm... Not at all?

The premise was CONSENT TO CUCKOLD.

How is that rape?

because she obviously would never give u consent? she was so uncomfortable w the concept alone that she felt unable to work in the same building as you>?

assuming her consent is even more rapey. grow up fin smh.

GM fired me. OWNER tried to keep me on. Nothing he could do.

Plus, no way I'm sueing the guy who i quit on several times in my 20s, and STILL hired me back this last time.

At least i made it a year and a half.

Went in to see him today, he says he won't tell anyone i was fired for sexual harassment. Instead, we're going to make it sound like i quit because they wouldn't let me be manager.

Plus dude bailed me out of jail a few times (bench warrants for expired registration/insurance).

Nothing but love for that man.

Man stfu

I mean... I'll never do anything/say anything like that at work again.

I already learned my lesson. Taking it to that next level just to make it sound worse is just something you're doing so you can look down at me some more, make me feel worse about it.

Lol... I got fired the day before Thanksgiving, Bags.

I think my contrition is ample enough.

Lol... Alright. You first.

I mean.....im not exaggerating the scenario or wording it overly harsh at all

I think you are downplaying it entirely just based on the position youre taking

obviously she didn't think it was an innocent joke?

trust me I don't need to go out of my way to look down on you......

its just typical of you to make a colossal moral blunder like this and then play the victim

the fact that you wont say something like that again purely out of fear for losing employment as opposed to actually recognizing that you were at fault for degrading another mans wife ....let alone in a professional setting...speaks volumes to level of immaturity that u refuse to let go.

I wont even speak on your son but its time to grow tf up an be stable for him.

Fin?

NO he can't.

Department of Labor laws state - where there is discomfort it's harassment. If it can't be repeated to a 5 your old, it shouldn't be said at all in the work place.

Chick obviously felt uncomfortable which falls under harassment.

He just needs to grow the fuck up already and stop being a legit career loser.

That's the shit we talked about in middle school locker rooms while getting changed after football games - regarding the cheer leaders.

Finny, seriously - grow the fuck up, dirt bag.

If I was her husband, I'd find you and break your jaw and hands so you would not be able to touch a mother fucking thing, weirdo creep.

Yep, weirdo creep. Career loser. Bags insinuating that i have no moral conundrum.

You guys sure AREN'T trying to make me feel worse.

V - i get another job before the 30th I'm good.

Can I get a tldr on this finny sexual assault?

Yep. Great boarder, bro.

Won't even fucking read, just straight called me a rapist.

I'm done.

Are you referring to me here?

I called you a rapist where? I asked for a briefing of it because there’s a bunch of nonsense troll comments about it and I have no desire to read through that all?

Go fuck your self fin. You’re shitty attitude is why you’re a loser.

Fin,

Do you see your error in this and how she was justified to feel the way she did sir?

If you do not, I am happy to break it down for you sir. Just want insight to he gained to prevent it from happening again homey.

Inb4 veritas' 4th triple post of "I swear I don't think I'm better than everyone"...of the week

Went back and read more

Seems finny did get a little shafted if that’s the exact joke and wording he used. Lot dirtier shit said in kitchens. Maybe it being a coworker is the part that put it over though. I don’t have enough experience in that environment to say. But I know my friends that work in kitchens would think what you said is pretty tame.

It’s 2018 though so just don’t make any sort of sexual comment at work

yeah tough break fin shoulda been tighter w/ the GM but also if uve been rehired a bunch of times there i think its time to move on anyways, no way opportunities are this scarce for you

Dude it’s not that. I legitimately care about his well being. I have talked to him in person. I like him. He has admitted that he saboteurs his advancements.

If there is something you want to say to me say it?

The whole idea she was thinking was most likely: I take offfense that this dude would think I would want to let him bang me while my husband watches.” It is a character judgement. Towards both her and her husband. I get it.

This.

Of course i felt bad, i lost my job. I inadvertently hurt someone's feelings, or offended them to the point they are disgusted with me. That's the second layer of guilt. My "homie" is the one who told it to the boss.. Can't really be that guy's friend anymore. Third layer of guilt. Spent thanksgiving the NEXT DAY alone, broke, hungry, and jobless. 4th layer of guilt. Getting called a dead beat dad for not having a job for a week. 5th layer of guilt.

Lastly, try and buy into the "positivity" thread by laying down my plight, but finishing it with hope for the future... Get called a rapist.

You guys want me to cut my wrists tonight too for saying something out of hand?

LMFAO fuck yooouuuu

in all of your secret thoughts: do you have a high opinion of yourself or a low opinion of yourself Fin?

I.e: when bad shit happens do you think “ I shouldn’t have to deal with this I am better than thi” or “I deserve this because I always fuck up”

Obv the latter.

Yep yep yep. That makes it tougher to stop the patterns of self-sabotaging. But it is not impossible sir.

You kept a job for a year. You paid your child support. You didn’t Have any terrible depression spells, and saw your son a bunch. You might be a piece of shit, but you are far less a piece of shot today than you were yesterday, and not guaranteed to always be one.

Fair?

5th*

Why are you trolling me?

Fair. But it wasn't enough.

Right right....but see how your mind works to justify the tragedy this forever perpetuating it? The problem is that some part of you on some deeep level is sincerely tired of the same old bullshit and is fighting that . That is why, while it might not have been enough, it was certainly more than five years ago. Even your low opinion of yourself has to confirm that fact.

So I ask you sir,

What have you learned from this past year
And what is next.


Think before you tell me amigo.

Because I can?

lmao at the faggotry of some of you guys

i legit lol'd when V asked if it was a rape joke tho.

but word shit was super tame but of course they were in the right to fire you as well. you just gotta work a mans job doggy. thats an everyday conversation, even our building, we have statefarm offices with insurance agent broads and talk about banging em out if given the chance, we got a gym that got built behind us and creep on gym broads like godddddd dammnnnnn that bitch is wearing them pants

i got horrendous podcasts playing with literal rape jokes and racist jokes on a stereo sometimes, but its all good cuz we're all men. there is no women to women it up and ruin man shit.

i'll tell you like i told you before, find out where a maaco is, and apply. let them know you have no experience but you want to learn, and be prepared to work. they'll probably start you at 12 an hour, and the more you can do and the more you're willing to do as you learn will help you immensely

i knew nothing when i started. they'll either start you in sanding, or detailing. detailing being fairly straight forward, just taking the tape and paper off of stuff that got painted, cleaning out the interiors and washing the cars and parking them. in sanding its simple as fuck, they give you a DA palm sander and you sand whats getting painted, basically make it not shiny anywhere its getting paint. you blow it all off with a blow gun and send it through

its simple shit. the more you do the more comfortable you get, the more they'll teach you and you can work up to painting cars or doing bodywork, and once you figure one of those out you can earn bank.

or you can be a slave like me and do everything and basically run the whole shop for 50k a year in ohio money. which is like 100k a year in civilization

This dude worked at a fucking pizzaria as a pizza pie topper. Not no 5 star world class restaurant. Some of your responses are killing me. Get a fucking job that you can make a career out of, man. Like I said, wake up and grow up. Figure out what you want to do in life rather then sit in your roach infested basement making shitty music. Go back to school for something or a trade. Do something to improve your way of life. Do something to improve your situation, PERIOD.

Like I can’t believe someone In their 30’s is living like this. Most heroin addict homeless junkies live this way. Don’t or not aware of anyone else other then maybe crack heads or meth addicts.

Better yourself, man.

why are you questioning yourself in this? Either commit or do not.

Let us start over....

Why are you trolling me?

Thanks V. Rly appreciate this

This is my state as well lmmfaooo

Appreciate the warm wishes and positivity. Landed on my feet. Assistant Manager at Culver's.

@Amen

- go to yakiniku restaurant
- no tipping
- you have to call waiter to table
- exposing the soles of your shoes is impolite
- locals are generally very helpful with foreigners and Americans especially are kind of a novelty
- get translator app for phone
- public baths are common if you wanna check that out
- transportation is excellent there. Buy a 5 day pass.
- get okonomiyaki while in Hiroshima
- visit atom bomb museum
- go to Nara, Osaka and Nagasaki
- stay in capsule hotel and a ryokan
- temples

Because I can...