Thx for the maturity of the few of you tho, much love

It's because some parents care more about how society (and quite often their religion) sees them than the emotions of their children. Did you see the story about a transgender teen killing herself because of being judged and not accepted by her parents for feeling like she was a female in a males body? Even once she was dead her parents refused to refer to her as 'she'.

Religion does good things, it also makes people hurt those closest to them to gain the favour of an invisible man in the sky.

all it needed was a little tail spin from bb da bb

him*

Nope, it is a medically recognised condition, not to mention that was her chosen preference. It is not just choice, it is biological too, it is genetic and has something to do with hormones they had exposure to prenatally...that person was a female in every way that matters other than the physical aspect, we are not just meat, genitals are only one thing that make us a certain sex, hormones do too, as do genetics, as well as psychology.

Log off for a week man
U addicted right now

Oh boy...


Badi, it's all love over here. Not the creepy kind of love either .

U just relieved ur father of every fear hes had for u


If u were a guy his reaction wouldve been different

I appreciate you taking me seriously and responding with respect.

Just curious: what made you decide to make the switch?

Good point tbh.

@Bags, that's probably true. Unfortunately there'd be a double standard. My dad is also very sensitive yet can act like tony soprano when he gets mad, but his heart is huge.
@VERITAS ha... I always smile to myself when people make sexual orientation sound like a decision or a choice. I didn't wake up one day and say wow I wana fuck this girl, she's hot" we d been hanging out and became close friends and one day she kissed me and though I've been repulsed by some aggressive girls from the past who wouldn't take no for an answer, with this girl it was the exact opposite. It felt right. Our chemistry ha built up over time through friendship. Like any other relationship, it became companionship. Don't get me wrong, I've had bfs in the past that made me feel like that but this bond I have with her feels so right it's scary. Can't explain it but I do not consider it a decision. I love her mind and soul.

The studio has arrived. Home sweet home. It is time.

I also don't believe anyone out there would consciously CHOOSE the unconventional lifestyle, unless they craved attention of some sort for it. Because of her, my own previous perspectives on gays, straights, bis, you name it, have become more open. Not that I was ever against anybody for that sort of thing, but with this experience it stopped me from putting labels on people. In some cases, I truly believe you can't help who you love

And @Phil I always knew you had my back along with a few others here :)

Tell homosexual people in countries where homosexuals get murdered that their sexual orientation is a choice and they will laugh in your face...why would they choose that?

Also, if it's a choice and you are heterosexual...try choosing to fuck a man, choose to have a relationship with a man, you can't do it...you won't enjoy it. Sexuality is not a matter of choice, it is automatic.

@Witty , I did read about that. Tortured souls man. I met a trans when I was attending University of Tampa an for the first week I knew him, I had no idea he was born a girl. No tits, the testosterone deepened te voice and created a chin-strap stubble beard and I seriously had no idea. But I was touched when his parents came and visited campus and he introduced them to me. His parents referred to him as their son and all types of crazy supportive shit. Like it came natural to them. I assumed they'd been introduced to the idea that the daughter they gave birth to always felt this way from a very young age, just because they seemed so well-adjusted to something that doesn't have much tolerance from most people I grew up with. And this was back on 2007

ali: Would you say that you have a history of doing counter culture/shocking/etc. type behavior for attention?

Lmao no, I'm a socially nervous person when it comes down to it, unless I know you really well

Veritas are you working on a psychology project by any chance. Now this feels like an interrogation

Oh um no not at all. Just curious. Trying to talk about others an not myself.

I guess I think that for someone to make a big life decision and not really examine it would be counter productove ya know?


So i mean maybe there is a reason behind why you made this choice? even if you dont consider it a choice?

This nigga trollin

Not at all. How you been Pheil?

@Phil like what am I supposed to say now, forreal. No offense @VERITAS but I really thought we covered that part of this discussion. I'm sorry you're treating this "decision" of mine like a midlife crisis but seriously, I'm ok. If you're suggesting incest or rape must've occurred for me to "make this decision", you are severely mistaken. My last bf was loyal, honest, and amazing. To this day we still check up on each other. Think COMPANIONSHIP, not labels of whether it's straight or homo. Forreal

So nothing means nothing?

I mean it is homo though. Right?

No hespecially just curiosity. I was hoping you could be honest with me, esp since so many people on here lie to me so often. But now I sense you not feeling me about this.

all I wanted to know is what prompted the choice. You said you didn't consider it a choice....so I dug deeper....

I just wanted to know your mind.

trith be told you should want to know your mind about this too.

fair?

Trollin so hard.

I wouldn't engage in conversation with him @Badi Alii

He's smart enough to ask himself the same question to himself. When did he decide to be heterosexual? What event occurred that supports that choice?

Like, this dude is trollin super hard right now Badi. Mega hard.


I'm gonna go out on a limb and even say the dude doesn't even care, he just wants to shake the hornets nest and watch you go nuts.

Phil I was planning on letting you make it bc it is obv you have a mood disorder but right now you are hindering something much greater than you.

if you have beef with me make another thread. In this one however, fall back.

cuz you missing me like a lepers arm.

Lmfao

No beef brah. It's not that serious. I'm free to advise her as I wish, and where I wish. I can't take anything you say serious, so my tone is very light hearted in real life.

Your heart is very light-toned in real life, too.