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veritas 06-19-2013 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by God Of War (Post 79175)
so your saying toys can make a kid gay?

I am saying that if it appears to be his natiral nature to be feminine is his likes you do not want to reinforce amd solidify that.

Simple.

Objective 06-19-2013 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by VERITAS (Post 79186)
I am saying that if it appears to be his natiral nature to be feminine is his likes you do not want to reinforce amd solidify that.

Simple.

That's fucking bullshit. It's worse trying to hide shit or take away toys from the kids cuz of your own insecurities. Kids will pick up on that which might help to undermine identity issues later in life. You being the therapist and all is giving terribad advice in this matter. You should probably read up a bit about psychology in children and/or stick to what you know.

Some kids that are feminine ''in nature'' is mostly just insecure about themselves and try to do shit the right way by being gentle and careful. Give them some fucking confidence and they start tearing shit up, play soccer with the other kids and peeing on toys. I've seen that kind of development with my own eyes.

Chyeahhh!!! 06-19-2013 04:30 PM

get that lil nigga some GI Joe's and let him watch The Expendables or something. If you come back in the room and see Hawk hitting Ariel from the back, then you'll know eything is good. Then go do the same thing to his mom *daps*

veritas 06-19-2013 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Objective (Post 79188)
That's fucking bullshit. It's worse trying to hide shit or take away toys from the kids cuz of your own insecurities. Kids will pick up on that which might help to undermine identity issues later in life. You being the therapist and all is giving terribad advice in this matter. You should probably read up a bit about psychology in children and/or stick to what you know.

Some kids that are feminine ''in nature'' is mostly just insecure about themselves and try to do shit the right way by being gentle and careful. Give them some fucking confidence and they start tearing shit up, play soccer with the other kids and peeing on toys. I've seen that kind of development with my own eyes.

You are wrong.

Split 06-19-2013 04:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Objective (Post 79188)
That's fucking bullshit. It's worse trying to hide shit or take away toys from the kids cuz of your own insecurities. Kids will pick up on that which might help to undermine identity issues later in life. You being the therapist and all is giving terribad advice in this matter. You should probably read up a bit about psychology in children and/or stick to what you know.

Some kids that are feminine ''in nature'' is mostly just insecure about themselves and try to do shit the right way by being gentle and careful. Give them some fucking confidence and they start tearing shit up, play soccer with the other kids and peeing on toys. I've seen that kind of development with my own eyes.

I'd agree with Veritas on this. Showing your kid what to do is parenting

God Of War 06-19-2013 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Split Eight (Post 79196)
I'd agree with Veritas on this. Showing your kid what to do is parenting

lol no

guiding your child is parenting

Split 06-19-2013 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by God Of War (Post 79197)
lol no

guiding your child is parenting

Obv meant the same thing...

Mr. J 06-19-2013 05:10 PM

get him an easy bake...

Dominate 06-19-2013 05:20 PM

Just so everyone is on the same page, can we confirm:

- does the kid play EXCLUSIVELY with girl toys, or does he play with both girl and boy toys indiscriminately?

And

- HOW does he play with his toys? I mean playing with a Dora the explorer if she's on a rescue mission or a treasure hunt or some shit is more manly than playing with a GI Joe if he's at a tea party


I think both of these Qs are very relevant

Evolve 06-19-2013 05:23 PM

when my son was 5 he picked up a barbie doll.....
















...she's now on maternity leave.

Objective 06-19-2013 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Split Eight (Post 79200)
Obv meant the same thing...

Well, tell me how removing your kids toys because you think they're for faggots is guiding your child at all? That's taking choices for him and deciding how he shall live life, and what kind of stuff he's allowed to have fun with. There is absolutely NO reason to do so except for egotistical insecurity reasons.

@VERITAS: I'm willing to challenge you on this subject and perhaps we can get a good debate going. Go ahead and tell me how my previous post was wrong.

TYSON 06-19-2013 05:46 PM

Damn too much to read when high. The mama needs to be checked imo. She should be teaching him boys play with boy's toys and girls play with girls toys. Instead she supplying the boy with the shit. Wow its crazy but I agree the morals are dwindling thru the generations. Yes I agree that its not that big a deal on the child if a phase but if she feeds it beyond his age then she should be suplexed.

Geno 06-19-2013 05:46 PM

Lmao @ toys for knucks. Damn, this thread got more live than I expected

-pats own back

Geno 06-19-2013 05:47 PM

And oh ya, about that suplex.. I'm waiting for her to call. Finna go try and suplex that pussy tonight! Bangbang. I should let little man watch -show him what's really good

veritas 06-19-2013 05:52 PM

Before I debate I must know:

Does he only play with girl toys or does he play with both?

If offered a boy toy and a girl toy which will he prefer?

Thank you.

Dsm code 302.6

Geno 06-19-2013 05:54 PM

Well @ veritas.

From what I've seen he'd go for the dora toy stronger.
But I do believe he has both. I will know more after the night is over, and I shall return with info.

TYSON 06-19-2013 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Genocide (Post 79236)
And oh ya, about that suplex.. I'm waiting for her to call. Finna go try and suplex that pussy tonight! Bangbang. I should let little man watch -show him what's really good

Lol u sure? He might be looking at u instead....lmao

Split 06-19-2013 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Objective (Post 79231)
Well, tell me how removing your kids toys because you think they're for knucks is guiding your child at all? That's taking choices for him and deciding how he shall live life, and what kind of stuff he's allowed to have fun with. There is absolutely NO reason to do so except for egotistical insecurity reasons.

@VERITAS: I'm willing to challenge you on this subject and perhaps we can get a good debate going. Go ahead and tell me how my previous post was wrong.

teach your kid how you think and your values, its up to him to make whatever he wants out of them. I never said censor his thoughts. if I was playing with a car as a kid and my dad gave me a truck and said try this instead, I'd be like "ok"

Geno 06-19-2013 05:56 PM

Lolololololol. You might be right, in that case ill just toss him a dora the explorer doll to divert his attention. Should go over like a dog on some steak during a burlgary

Ghost1 06-19-2013 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Meth (Post 78964)
to be clear.



No its not.


And that kids a fagget. Ah well.


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