What ill luck has befallen you that you're scratching for food? You seem to be a generally sensible and knowledgable type... Do you work?

You were young and selfish at some point and I bet you used money he gave you for something other than what it was intended for ... Cut him some slack. He's prolly already ashamed to be living with you and too proud to ask you for money.

Well, depends on the situation I leave him/she alone or walk away from the situation.

i typically let the person know that I know what they did. i then speak nothing of it. seeking shelter in the warmth of good karma.

and essentially understanding that nothing worldly truly matters in the end.

"there is no understanding all the things that people do".

Forgive them.

Karma is one hell of a.thing to happen to a person. Accountability is universal though its acceptance is not shared by all. The universe makes it so that you are held responsible in some way shape or form. Voice it and let the situation unfuck itself. What's in store for them is usually better than anything you can come.up.with in the grand scheme of things which may give you more of a matter of fact/befitting pleasure once you figure out it was that accountability coming into fruition when it does.

Ponders........