I am saying that if it appears to be his natiral nature to be feminine is his likes you do not want to reinforce amd solidify that.

Simple.

That's fucking bullshit. It's worse trying to hide shit or take away toys from the kids cuz of your own insecurities. Kids will pick up on that which might help to undermine identity issues later in life. You being the therapist and all is giving terribad advice in this matter. You should probably read up a bit about psychology in children and/or stick to what you know.

Some kids that are feminine ''in nature'' is mostly just insecure about themselves and try to do shit the right way by being gentle and careful. Give them some fucking confidence and they start tearing shit up, play soccer with the other kids and peeing on toys. I've seen that kind of development with my own eyes.

get that lil nigga some GI Joe's and let him watch The Expendables or something. If you come back in the room and see Hawk hitting Ariel from the back, then you'll know eything is good. Then go do the same thing to his mom *daps*

You are wrong.

I'd agree with Veritas on this. Showing your kid what to do is parenting

lol no

guiding your child is parenting

Obv meant the same thing...

get him an easy bake...

Just so everyone is on the same page, can we confirm:

- does the kid play EXCLUSIVELY with girl toys, or does he play with both girl and boy toys indiscriminately?

And

- HOW does he play with his toys? I mean playing with a Dora the explorer if she's on a rescue mission or a treasure hunt or some shit is more manly than playing with a GI Joe if he's at a tea party


I think both of these Qs are very relevant

when my son was 5 he picked up a barbie doll.....
















...she's now on maternity leave.

Well, tell me how removing your kids toys because you think they're for faggots is guiding your child at all? That's taking choices for him and deciding how he shall live life, and what kind of stuff he's allowed to have fun with. There is absolutely NO reason to do so except for egotistical insecurity reasons.

@VERITAS: I'm willing to challenge you on this subject and perhaps we can get a good debate going. Go ahead and tell me how my previous post was wrong.

Damn too much to read when high. The mama needs to be checked imo. She should be teaching him boys play with boy's toys and girls play with girls toys. Instead she supplying the boy with the shit. Wow its crazy but I agree the morals are dwindling thru the generations. Yes I agree that its not that big a deal on the child if a phase but if she feeds it beyond his age then she should be suplexed.

Lmao @ toys for knucks. Damn, this thread got more live than I expected

-pats own back

And oh ya, about that suplex.. I'm waiting for her to call. Finna go try and suplex that pussy tonight! Bangbang. I should let little man watch -show him what's really good

Before I debate I must know:

Does he only play with girl toys or does he play with both?

If offered a boy toy and a girl toy which will he prefer?

Thank you.

Dsm code 302.6

Well @ veritas.

From what I've seen he'd go for the dora toy stronger.
But I do believe he has both. I will know more after the night is over, and I shall return with info.

Lol u sure? He might be looking at u instead....lmao

teach your kid how you think and your values, its up to him to make whatever he wants out of them. I never said censor his thoughts. if I was playing with a car as a kid and my dad gave me a truck and said try this instead, I'd be like "ok"

Lolololololol. You might be right, in that case ill just toss him a dora the explorer doll to divert his attention. Should go over like a dog on some steak during a burlgary

No its not.


And that kids a fagget. Ah well.

this can lead to all types of problems. the mother is a moron for buying him the toys.

he will be socially awkward and have trouble making friends once school starts. boys will shun him and he will be an outcast. he will then become friends with girls because they have the same likes and interests. he will identify as a female soon after. where is the father?

Question nr.1: He plays with both. No natural favourite between toys for girls/boys. Just does whatever the fuck he wants.

Q2: Depends on the toy and what he wanna do that day. No real fav over the other.

inb4 objective starts white knighting all over the place

Sure, ofc. But if you wanted to play with your hypothetical sisters dolls and you was refused because it was for knucks, it'd be wrong tho'? And shut up about whiteknighting, I'm simply debating this ish. I'm not telling ya'll to change opinions.

However, I'd never buy my son dolls n shit for no reason. I'm simply talking about playing with that stuff with friends or whatever in the playground and perhaps buying the son a doll or whatever if he wanted one. I mean, who gives a fuck? It's not like his room will be filled with toys for girls.

@ mike wrecka

Father ain't around. Has never seen the kid according to her. But I agree with everything you said there. Its all psychological

Common sense question which ends all this nonsense: would you buy your son a dress if he wanted to wear one?

That is by far less of a problem....but still a problem. There is the psychological concept of gender identofication.

And whatever parent says *we just let him find himself/herself* is a moron.

Geno,

Answer my question about how does he play with them

There will be no psychological concept of gender identification if you raise your child right. Being refused to play with shit ''no, you're a boy, you play with this shit'' creates more confusion than you'll probably ever agree with. Why? I'll tell you why.

A kid aint judgmental until you learn it to be. All a kid knows is what it likes and what it doesn't like. This boils down to the same arguement I make for people that agrees with slapping/hitting the child to make it understand the difference between right/wrong. It will NEVER understand why he can't play with a certain toy or what he did wrong unless it's explained to him why and he sincerely understands it. Just saying ''no'' doesnt work, and saying ''no'' to something that doesn't really have a real answer to begin with (playing with girls toys) will confuse the child. He'll nod and say he understands, but in actuality he doesn't. He just understands he can't play with it cuz he got a dick.

Now, if you can properly explain to a child why he can't play with gender specific toys without making him somewhat judgmental towards other kids that do; Good luck man, I salute you.

You're there to guide the kid, if he wonder about the gender specific toys, what/why other kids picks on it etc. THIS IS WHERE YOU CHIP IN to talk about how society works and how skewed it is. How people and kids do stuff they don't want to just because of social pressure. Do we really want our kids to be just another clone of the society we live in so they can be another prime example of a law abiding citizen that doesn't question anything about life? A protected facility called school with obligatory PARENTAL BEHAVIOUR EDUCATION between homework assignment and classes so they can get through first grade? Are you fucking kidding me dude? I'mma teach my kid to do whatever the fuck he wants, whenever he wants, however he wants and if someone picks on him I'll teach him how to hit people properly.

If you can properly learn your child how to hit a person that picks on it for playing with dolls, not only are you learning him to stand up for himself and what he believes is right, but you also learn him that he shouldn't give a fuck about what others think about the shit he does unless they start degrading him to his face. He's taking a stand. THAT'S how you raise a man and not another clone people kinda gives a shit about. That's how you raise someone that isn't afraid of making mistakes because he'll always have people that supports him. If you want to raise a person that believes in himself you don't conform the kid to society, you back him up no matter what he wants to do with his life. Fuck outta here with that weak shit ''nah man, my kid aint a knuck, my kid aint this, my kid aint that, fuck your kid if he's raised to become another clone of society that looks over his shoulder before he purchase his next set of nothing with personality.

Fuck this shit, ya'll are weak minded beings that's afraid of your own shadows and what your neighbours might think.

Who raised you? Amd how?

Lol....

Good...gooood.

guaranteed Objective doesn't have a kid. and when he does, the second the kid wants to join ballet guaranteed he goes out and buys him hockey equipment

Half of the time I raised myself. Aint going to go into details about my childhood as it would detract from the debate and have nothing to do with it. This isn't the time for psyche evaluations of a persons opinion on a specific topic. Stick to the debate. I could use a different approach if you want to if my way of talking made your therapy senses tingle.

But truth be told; I've worked in a daycare a few years, been to several presentations about the psychology in kids, group psychology and psyche development throughout childhood years along with a few presentations on gender specific toys and what sort of impact they do on kids. Take what I said with a grain of salt, by all means, I did infact tell ya'll to teach your kids how to punch someone. But word, the shit above is what I believe in.

I don't have a kid, but whatever you say bro. If that makes me unfit to join the discussion I'll be happy to talk about it with ya in 10 years or so.

Honestly...yes. i personally feel like it does make ur oppinions invalid.

*Objective reserves this spot so he can fill in when he gets a kid in 10 years time.*

You better not fuck up this site Knuck. I want to discuss this shit some time in the future when my opinions are deemed valid and the same people are still posting on this shit. I know ya'll wont change much in 10 years anyways. So ye, see ya then.

Also, @VERITAS: You a parent?

I have two children.

My whole debate is this amd it ends the matter:

Objective......your son wants to wear a pink frilly dress to his first day of school....do you let him?

Of course not.

That's not nearly in the same realm as a kid playing with a Dora the explorer

Besides the fact that Dora IS a girl there's nothing inherently "girly" about that franchise - it's rescue missions and animals and treasure hunts and learning spanish.

It's how the kid plays with the toy, not the toy itself. Case in point: would you rather your son played with a Dora doll as described above, or with a GI Joe but doing tea parties and shit?

Whys mom buying young fagget da gawd girl toys to begin wit.....they shouldnt even be venturing down those aisles tho fohReal

get this kid a copy of yeezus stat