Dude.. Just because you dump a stupid insensitive bitch doesn't mean you're going to be single for eternity. Sounds like you think people only go on dates once every two years or something. I'd dump that bitch too, she obviously wasn't worth having a ''serious thing'' with.

it's weird how a choice between two different words indicating the exact same thing make such a difference. i have disabled relatives close to me, i can understand taking the issue with perceived insensitivity of others. but you have to realize - people whose personal spheres aren't affected by these things rarely take the time to learn about their particularities.

you're obviously more educated on the ethical behavior for these situations than she was and im sure it was an honest mistake..

but yeah. she'll call

She still thinks that she's gods gift to the man tho'. Seems like a stuck up hoe to me.

idk how u got that out of anything i said haha

they do try to use 'person/student/child with an intellectual disability' instead. person first language ftw

and autism spectrum is way different from mental retardation

suddenly the foundations of special ed class i had to take becomes relevant lol

that is overly wordy

they are retards, wasn't a problem til someone had to make a stand on something useless. in a few years a couple of shitbricks will campaign a new word and say disabled or mentally challenged is to offensive

i like em though mostly chill as fuck my cousin was downs and is always smiling and happy

I feel you on that but there are people who let the label define the kid, which is what you have to not do as a parent/teacher/professional

idgaf really i just wanted this class i had to take to seem useful lol

but autism is a lot different from mental retardation, i dont blame the guy for getting pissed when its his daughter

@Knucklehead: There's a fine line between using the word ''retard'' and showing enough respect to ask the question in a more apropriate way. There's a lot of girls out there that will do just that. It's not about the question itself, it's how it was phrased and I'm pretty sure JW would be fine if she wasn't insensitive about it all. Even if she didn't mean it that way there's obviously something missing in the logical judgment and normal human behavior department.

Just because he dumped her doesn't mean that he'll never find a serious thing.. It seems to me that you think it'll be hard for him to find a serious thing just because he dumped that particular girl for being overall pretty stupid in how humans should interact with eachother. So yeah, it did seem to me you thought it was impossible to find a girl that isn't insensitive about her questions, and it would probably be hard to find a girl like that for any guy that doesn't date someone more than once every two years or something.

Callin them retards is fuckin stupid. The point is regardless of how you feel about them you should at least have the decency to treat his daughter with fuckin respect or anyone else who's disabled for that matter. Retard is a fuckin slang term used to insult them that's not what they are. It's just like the n word to black people or any other racial term. You CAN use these words but why would you want to?

ohhh don't get me started on the N word

^^^^This... @Just Write.. bro I have more respect for u at the moment man. Not many would have turned down some rich pussy bro but u made the right decision. Most likely she was a uppity stuck up rich bitch who parents never taught any moral values and social etiquette like @Knucklehead. Tbh I would have hit the bitch out pure anger but that problaly why I don't have a kids with autism. U are the better man to handle that real shit.

I don't understand knucklehead sometimes.

Go for it tell me about the N word. Is that what they really are until someone made a stand on something completely useless? And in a few years some shitbricks will say African America is too offensive?

But you have black friends so its cool though right?

Get em....

I just think it is stupid blacks use nigga and somehow think it's different

then claim everyone is false for stereotyping them as ignorant

i could go in more depth but you lot are frazzled enough for one day

also no word should anger anyone to any point, they are the only race that gets heated over that shit to another level

i have no problem with people calling me a kyke, i just laugh and forget about it 5 seconds later

I agree that we shouldn't say it but it is conditioned in me with this hood shit. Yes it's push our button when called a nigger but to me that's to be taking as a pure insult. If want call me a oil spil that's cool might call u mayonnaise on white bread or something and probably laugh. Wats ignorant is the people who use it cause it reflects their ignorance the most.

oh and @Buddha retard is not a slang term haha

it's a noun first used in the 1700's

So was the n word but what's the difference? You're missing the point here in all of this and you're only showing your ignorance. The point is theres a right way and a wrong way to approach and the dumb bitch lawyer and you took the wrong way. It's that simple.

Did I once say I would use it around someone retarded? No. I said I use it around people who are not and I said he overreacted

also, offensive words only get offensive because of people it offends

you give it the power and make yourselves look foolish

+1 RESPECT FOR NOT HITTING HER

she really called your kid retarded? i would have considered leaving after that "gods gift" shit.. woulda really smacked her up for that and I don't even get like that.

just never ever disrespect my child.

Sensitive niggers huh

She just called his daughter retarded and that's an overreaction? I would've killed the bitch.
But anyway I'm done with this conversation. Good luck with your life.

He could have easily just said he was offended and she would have apologized most likely

the context she used it by what JW said doesn't really seem all the offensive, she asked a question and god forbid used an "offensive" word

she wasn't attempting to insult him

you cool though buddha didn't want to get you all twisted up

I hate agreeing with knuckle, we do give it power. As I said about nigga being conditioned in black people as an ok word we have been taught that nigger is the most offensive word to be called. But to tell the truth it was 400 years of slavery that made the word so powerful and that hardship or form of it(racism) only ended about 50 years ago. We can't let it be forgotten just yet give it 400 years from then u might can say it then.

lmao but like i said, i don't find kyke offensive

we were slaves first, for a longer time and were treated worse

if u wanna take the lazy angle of "oh well for us it JUST happened"

holocaust death toll for jews: 6 million
slavery death tolls for blacks: 4 million from slavery itself, like 6 million killed eachother but that isn't really relevant

not saying i use the n word other than trolling from time to time, but yeah finding it offensive is just nonsense

the word retarded isnt offensive, implying that your being a good father is dependent on who your child is, is pretty offensive

i would also say that deeming someone retarded might not be incorrect, but implying that my brother, sister or child should be pitied would get your jaw fractured

so fucking tired of people taking words out of context by putting them into context

are you saying being the father to a special needs child is no different from having an average child?

lmaao

It's all good we just got a difference of opinion obviously. No worries.

are you implying that raising any child is the same as raising any other child?

Lmao @Split...no one ever called him a good father I said he was the better man for the job to have reacted like he did because I my brother would of dragged her ass out by hair and told her a couple obscene remarks. And ask any parent with an special needs kids if they find retarted offensive and they will say yes.

Im sure they do, and they'd be biased wouldn't they? If we're talking about words in general that are offensive or improper to use

special needs kids require more money, time, and patience than a normal kid

i know this from family experience, and asking someone about it is not offensive

if you do find it offensive than that is sad and you are weak minded, like JW here

100 years of slavery. ..yeah wtf u niggas sp mad about...

Right knuck..towlett ass niggas

true story no ducktails

If you're not putting all your effort into raising your kid I pity your child.

if you don't understand how phrasing a question gives it a different connotation, you are socially retarded

@Split what are you talking about lol. I'm literally lost as to what you're tryin to say.

EDIT: Your last post cleared that up nevermind.

^^^^this is pretty much my whole point. the was she said it was insensitive and literally made me see red. if i didnt leave i probably would have beat her ass. and low key the other girl gave bomb head and made ya boy breakfast so overall im happy with my decision. thank you for those who see what i seen in that statement and for those you didnt... well, pity. hope all your kids are healthy otherwise you are in for a grave shock my friends. im done arguing about this and didnt mean for it to turn into this big ass thing lmao.. on a lighter note this may be my most successful thread ahaha

Knuck a jew tho..yall surprised he dont like the niggas?

Ok don't u think their "biased" opinion should hold more weight since they in fact raise and nurture these special needs kids. Think about that shit man.

And on another note if u don't post a damn verse up in our battle then I am going to make a sex tape with DG and spam your email with it.

c/s everything knuck says. this is getting too serious. retarded, mentally retarded was an everyday word in the 80's-90's but the country got pussified and changed it for some wacko reason. it'll change again and again and again.

i would've just asked her if she knows that that word is offensive to you and if she apologizes, it's water under the bridge. instead, we're talking about smacking some bitch up over a word.