It's not about being on a high horse. I put "not cheating" on the same level of basic human decency as somethig like "not stealing"... "not being a deadbeat dad"... Etc... It's nothing to brag about, it's something to diss ppl who DO do it about.

And I agree that people who do usually either dont love their partner (and are too weak to either end the relationship or try to fix it), or they don't love themselves (as in have low self esteem and conquering other women makes them feel a little better about themselves)

There's a third category that's where people are usually near the start of a relationship and there's miscommunication about how serious they are about it, really one partner just wants to be hanging out and fucking but the assumption of exclusivity works it's way in there somehow... That's less despicable than the first 2 situations but still lame

Lol argument flawed in numerous ways, here's the salient point

1) males have evolved with the innate desire to impregnate as many hoes as possible

i.e. if you are a monogamous male and you're under 30, you're a brainwashed bitch!!!

^truth.

I don't cheat bc when I enter into a relationship w a girl it's bc I enjoy t he m and thereby don't want to do them wrong. If i want out I'd end it n fuck other bitches

also I agree w the few ppl that said ppl rnt naturally monogamous, I feel w are periodically monogamous but not in total n changes in srs relationships usually correspond w life changes (midlife crisis, aging, and all that sht)
also nyc is right it's a biological imperative for men to reproduce as much as possible to increase lineage.

Also I'd fuck an ex just yo fuck, yes. A fuck is a fuck a relationship is something more.

But kinda hypocritical but not really I'll fuck a girl in a relationship too, but then I'm the fuck n not In the relationship.

N I have crimes of moral turpitude, but I attribute my stance of not cheating more to my parents relationship from my viewpoint as a child more than ne thing.

lastly, as a teen I cheated tho.. So there is a maturity aspect to it as well.

I cheated on an ex tons of times and never felt bad, but after another ex cheated on me I told myself I wouldn't. It's one of the shittiest feelings you can put someone through. Trying to stay true to my chick now, she's worth it.

with me it is not a high horse it is the fact I seen what it does to people and I would rather not be that dude. If you get an oppertunity to smash it is usually because you are looking for one. If you are in a relationship you shouldnt be out looking for someone to smash and if you feel that you should be then don't be in a relationship.

Lol high horse? If you must know it was because thats why my family split up when I was a child (thanks dad!). I saw first hand what it does to a family and how if effects the kids.

It is a basic morale principal for any half decent human being and it is the 7th commandment.

just fucked a white girl is exactly an asian chick. not sure how I feel about this. all tits no ass

Males have also evolved to punch a dude in the face if he makes you angry. Should we not resist this urge?

Women have evolved to have hair on their legs. Should they not shave it?

Oats and dead man you are hereby removed from my list of NCGs I would allow to date my female relatives

It is a morale principle. All morals are completely subjective, though. I'm not saying I'm proud of what I did, I'm not, but it's what occurred. People can judge and cast whatever psychological or religious view they want. Fact is, no one moral code or overriding psychological principle can apply to the infinite permutations of human interaction. If you think that's the case, you're the fool, not the cheater. Again, if I could go back and not cheat, I would. But the basic instinct of man is flawed and although we all try our best to correct, sometimes it's an impossibility. Someone could counter that argument by saying it's an excuse or cop-out, but no one's perfect. I'm 100% confident every person in this thread who's bashed anyone who cheats has done something I would never do and I'd find reprehensible. This is really the definition of the high horse. Hope you guys feel righteous, but really we're all just the same type of person just with different coding for different kinds of faults.

Also religion will not help an argument. Only make it worse. Because as soon as it's introduced it supercedes every other rational argument. As in, I'd reply to your 7th commandment remark with a lol irl srs. So let's just keep that shit out of here and stick to the point at hand. Because saying 'God tells us so' is a weak argument around rational people.

Cake I am not sating that everyone should follow MY morale code because mine is the best! I am merely stating the reasons why I, ME, MYSELF, not you but ME...follow it. Those are MY reasons.

You misinterpret a lot of what is said, maybe because it makes you feel better about yourself? I do not know but read what is really said before replying again please.

I love me some me.

I'm not going to reread your post. I made my points irrespective of whether you feel they relate. 'Basic moral code of half-decent human beings' was the main point of contention. I read at a 5th grade level, I understood that.

it's one thing to say you cheated and regret it, it's another thing to say you think cheating is perfectly OK. For me, when I was in college and had a gf back home, the long distance thing was sack and I was partying, doing a lot of drugs, etc etc. Not justifying cheating, but it's just what happened. I'm def not proud of it. That last year of college was a whirlwind of personal highs and lows, cheating being one of the many low points. That's the breaks. You learn, you mature, you adapt. Now I'm super direct and upfront with my girlfriend, and can honestly say I've never done any thing remotely shady with other females in the two years we've been dating. For that, I'm proud of myself. I don't think you know how to be a good person till you've been a piece of shit, but that's just me. I'd like to think my piece of shit days are behind me.

@Dominate I still want a shot at your hypothetical female relatives.

I've cheated in the past by terms that others say are displays of such a person.

Now I'm a father and a husband and proud of it for the past 8 years

Lol@usoftfaggits.

we r all pieces of dirty, dirty shit

I have never cheated, never will...don't see the point tbh

Plus I'd get caught very quickly lol I have no organisational skills, I'd be terrible.

sex and money are tools to measure the maturity of a man.

Smh at the moral high horses of Dom and Veritas etc. have either of you had sex before marriage? I find that reprehensible. Cake nailed it on the head. Cheating isn't good but it doesn't make you weak if you have you just gave into temptation.