Take my stance

Join the school of stoicism

You will be hurt no longer

I've never been in love.

Fuckin right. Sorry to hear she got you too, and for this long. I could say some cliche shit, but ultimately you'll get there in your own time. You gotta break a few hearts in order to see what you do and what was done to you shouldn't happen, especially when you're in control of your own actions. In due time my friend.

another one of mine was i got in a relationship with this chick called Steph, i wasn't even looking for anything, she did all the chasing and firstly we would meet up as friends and gradually it led to be something more

Steph was rich as fuck when we met, was the manager of a carehome and took home more money than me, as time passed i got to know her better and realised just how much she was drinking and snorting without people knowing

i'm talking week long binges, up all night then heading to work, doing lines at work, coming home and doing the the same in a viscious cycle

but i let myself get caught up in it to

only when she lost her job, i stood by her, and long story short, this bitch fucking used me to basically fund her drink and coke problems

i took out a loan to be able to lend her money she promised she would give me back, fucked up my credit rating for some time

its only now looking back i can see it for what it was, she took me for a ride and then some, but at the time i was blind to it and let hairy pie take my eye off the ball

never again

LMAO

Cot dayum

Hope yer trololing

Oh god, I hope lord has mercy on her soul. That drug brings out the demon in people.

Sorry to hear that man.

Elaborate plz. What is looking after emotionally/physically/mentally, and what is your role in this situation?

You know what aussie women are like....well the exact opposite of that.

Nah, be specific bro. It might be an interesting conversation. What specific traits make most Asian women more wife material than Aussie ones to you?

Okay well when im in a partnership i am a very giving person ad am the typical 'nice guy'. Now in my experience aussie women take advantage of that and seem to think that kindness is a weakness in men. Asian women appreciate that kindness and reciprocate accordingly. They are more giving of their emotions and caring instead of the constant attitude and self entitlement that aussies possess.

Imo of course...

Cool... I don't have the same experience/view of australian/western women in general but I know the type you're referring to

Yeah man just my experience with them, there are good ones of course just i seem to attract the idiots haha.

I recommend cutting a woman and tasting her. then you will know her essence.

:))

@Beyond

Indeed.

Women don't want to hear 'yes' to everything. Women want men who stand their ground and have a mind of their own. They like strong men who can be kind if it is warranted, but also who can be stern when it is required. Reward system. If a woman acts out, they want a man who will put them in their place and call them out on their bullshit. Conversely, if they behave you should reward them. Respect has to be earned, not given.

@Muff there's no reason to hate women, man. They are just wired differently than men. Not worse, just different. And you are correct. They cannot detect how a man truly feels inside unless of course he lets his true feelings come out in some fashion. I've known plenty of alphas who think of women as pathetic creatures and will disparage them behind their backs at every opportunity. They still LOVE them and cannot detect the slightest resentment. Or perhaps they don't want to. It's funny because they will tell you that they are insightful and have 'instincts' when it comes to misogynistic men. They will tell you the reason you haven't found love is because you hate women and women can 'sense' that.

Never judge a woman based on her words, but only her actions. What women do and say are two entirely different things. What women say they want and what they actually want are not one and the same. Women will say they want a 'nice guy' who's kind and gentle and listens and all that, but watch who they actually go for. I'm not saying you have to be a douche, but you shouldn't be a complete pushover either. There's a balance. It's just that most douches fall on the more attractive side of that balance from a woman's standpoint. They aren't perfect, they know they have problems, but they still have some of the characteristics that they like in a man.

I feel like I've been saying the same thing over and over again on these forums. It's pretty obvious the way things are and the way women think and truly feel inside. You just have to take the red pill and accept reality. Then you can only improve your chances of finding happiness from there.

Good luck.

Props

I hear you man.

its all a work in progress

Ill remain open minded...

Just been around too many unstable bitches lately

Im working on eliminating my budding misogyny tho

Thx for stepping back n offering another perspective

Please stop.

Women are as variable in what they want in a man as men are in what they want in a woman. As variable in their intuitiveness and perception as men. As variable in how much their actions reflect ther words. *barf* @ a reward system. Nigga your girl is not your dog.

YOU take the red pill. You do not live that life. Your experience with attracting quality women goes no further than reading The Game. Your passive misogynist attitude almost certainly reflects your inexperience with any women of calibre.