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yo

i know a nigga that acts gay af but he's been in a yr long relationship w/ a chick. and his voice is feminine, he does his hair, etc. we both were in band yo and he dressed weird but son was cool. i think its more of a choice g certain things u cant control like your voice but u pick who u want to be with and what to label yourself as. what u alluded to sounds stereotypical like "cause u do this, u are this". its like saying cause dg dark, shes black when it could be some uncle ruckus type shit. most of the ppl who try to understand why gay ppl have become gay are straight tbh and we throw stereotypes all around. we could ask gay ppl why they are that way if we as a society didnt run them away. i use the term faggot but never had a problem with gays, i use that just as i say nigger. ive seen homosexuals use faggot more than me.

also, u can think back to your childhood and remember doing some gay ass shit, joe probably could too. then either your parents try to tell u its not right to do it on some baby'ing shit or u grew out of it/ that thought.

@Frank Metts

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Originally Posted by Frank Metts (Post 185763)

A genetic predisposition, you said it yourself homie ... It is not a choice who you are attracted to, you can force yourself to be attracted to someone if you feel it's the right thing to do... But if your hormones start going crazy while brad Pitt is doing a shower scene you don't choose that, that's your body telling you that's what you like

That's like saying two gay men adopt a male baby and just because that baby was raised by those men he can choose to also like men or him being gay was a learned behavior

Honestly the thought of being with another man makes me sick to my stomach, but I'm not against it for those that are homosexual... I didn't choose to not like men in a homosexual fashion my body told me I liked women. I couldn't chose to like a man if I wanted to. And if you say you can then your either bi curious or a closet homosexual

Very clear point here , I've known this dude Kenny since I was 4, he was always more feminine then the other boys and talked like a stereotypical gay man would .. Normal household mother and father, he didn't choose to talk like that or act feminine, that's what he felt was comfortable to him, that's who he was born to be. Of course he didn't come out till right after graduation but we already knew he was gay and have since like we knew what gay was.

Like I said before trauma can cause your brain to force you to not like a certain sex as can being institutionalized.

1. Dispostion brings inclination......but it is still a choice.
2. No one is born gay. No one can remember their first thought about sex. Sexuality is the product of sexual habit....in other words choices.

The choice is who you pick as a partner but in no way shape or form did any of you heterosexuals wake up one day and say " you know what I think I'm going to like females yup that's who I'm going to like "

No no no your instincts that you are born with led you in that direction, I know straight men who act stereotypical gay and when I say stereotypical I'm referring to what some white knuckle alabamian would see as not manly activities, soft voices more feminine roles but are straight as well.

It's like saying a hermaphrodite chooses which organ is more dominant in the body, or what they would want to identify as later in life, it's all instinct and you are born with that

You do not choose who or what sex you are attracted to, from the time your born to the time your interested in someone in that way nothing can change in your body that drastically other than trauma that will skew your judgement on who or what your attracted to.

The choice parts comes in on when you want to act on those instincts and that's where your confused... and that's societies fault for making people feel bad about whom their attracted to. But your either born wired to like men, women, both or neither ...

You don't just wake up in your late teens and say you choose to be a homosexual, you wake up in your late teens and say " I'm ready to show the world who I really am " avg age someone comes out is 19... For obvious reasons

Most gay men have had sex with a female, most teen pregnancy are actually girls who identify themselves as a lesbian or bisexual but either are abusing substances or trying to fit in with society and are careless.

thank you frank, thank you thank you thank you. EXACTLY

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Originally Posted by Adonis (Post 185686)

I always believed this

But growing up, one of my best friends had a little brother, I knew him between the ages of 5-8, he was always really feminine. We never teased him about it or anything, well once he hit freshman year or so he came out the closet. He was clearly born gay, cuz his bro said even when he was younger he was just feminine, born that way

sure he made a choice somewhere down the line, all i'm saying is it's possible he was just born feminine and gravitated towards male touch to offset that shit

This is true.

One of my boys I grew up with was like that.

Obviously at 8 he wasnt having gay sex..but low and be hold
10 years later he came out the closet.

He wasn't crazy.
Both his parents.
Never got abused.

He was just feminine.

Now on the other side.

I have a homie righr now who is mad feminine. ..I mean the nigga
Wheres skinny jeans, wierd piercings, talks load and very feminine.
Hand jestures and all...

And this nigga is the biggest pimp I know...nigga fucks a different girl
Every week...every week hes got a new one.

So yeah explain that.

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Originally Posted by Innovator (Post 186377)

Now on the other side.

I have a homie righr now who is mad feminine. ..I mean the nigga
Wheres skinny jeans, wierd piercings, talks load and very feminine.
Hand jestures and all...

And this nigga is the biggest pimp I know...nigga fucks a different girl
Every week...every week hes got a new one.

So yeah explain that.

wait for him to come outta the closet lol. seriously tho i knew 2 dudes like this in college, always feminine & suspect but mac'd on all types of bitches. slay'd hoes left n right. then one day they came out like 'suprise bitches' lmao

& ya people r def born gay or more feminine/masculine whatever. i know this lil boy thats like 3/4 with a dad thats part of a biker gang (so u could say dudes masculine) & the kid loves walkin round with a purse, tryin on his moms high heels, wants to be called tootsie roll all the time or some gay shit like that. i think thats proof enough