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bleak 08-01-2018 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Ghost1 (Post 688598)
Mr faggot?

Vammy

Ghost1 08-01-2018 01:10 PM

So Mr fsggot

Hush 08-01-2018 01:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Destroyer (Post 688599)
Depends
Are we talking about the butt?

Elaborate

Destroyer 08-01-2018 01:13 PM

Well I think it’s got to feel better to love in the butt than to get loved in the butt

Hush 08-01-2018 01:15 PM

That was deep

Ghost1 08-01-2018 01:17 PM

Gone

bleak 08-01-2018 01:22 PM

Fair enough lol

Eŋg 08-01-2018 01:23 PM

ya'll some bitches

but i mean, in the interest of balance you'd want mutuality.

doesn't often work out like that, but bit of a no-brainer really.

Hush 08-01-2018 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Eŋg (Post 688608)
ya'll some bitches

but i mean, in the interest of balance you'd want mutuality.

doesn't often work out like that, but bit of a no-brainer really.

Pretty sure ur the bitch

veritas 08-01-2018 01:40 PM

I don’t know vammy lol

Ghost1 08-01-2018 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by veritas (Post 688612)
I don’t know vammy lol

lmaoooo

bleak wtf r u talm bout

Destroyer 08-01-2018 01:43 PM

For serious tho, I’d say it’s better to love
I mean what does “to be loved” even feel like?
It’s certainly harder to define what constitutes the feeling so just because of that I’d have to say it’s better to love
It’s muxh more personal and identifiable

Ghost1 08-01-2018 01:47 PM

that's a bold claim

to love is definitely more subjective but I don't think to be loved is unidentifiable... to me there is a feeling of safety in being loved

veritas 08-01-2018 01:54 PM

If I had to choose I would choose to love.

Ghost1 08-01-2018 01:55 PM

yaknow I think it is easier....to love....than to be loved honestly

veritas 08-01-2018 02:05 PM

I see your point. I see that both require a level of vulnerability.

I would posit the main thesis of my choice would be that to love someone who does not love you back takes the greatest amount of character and has the greatest potential for individual and societal growth.

fair?

Ghost1 08-01-2018 02:06 PM

but what about learning to love someone who you don't love but loves you?

veritas 08-01-2018 02:12 PM

that is the second most important. The most important is the inverse (as it is the most difficult), learning to love those who do not love you.

in other words it is much easier (but still difficult) to love someone who you don't love that loves you, then to love someone who does not love you.

so loving (for me) takes the cake over being loved.

Chill Phil 08-01-2018 02:15 PM

To love.

You don't always feel someone else's love for you, unless they constantly do things and gestures to show you. Which typically doesn't happen. Not all the time, anyway.

~RustyGunZ~ 08-01-2018 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Ghost1 (Post 688619)
yaknow I think it is easier....to love....than to be loved honestly

It seems easier to emulate love for emotional satisfaction than to convince someone to spend their time emulating love towards you

It’s harder to actually love than to be loved I think. They’re both difficult though. And both can be toxic dependent on the people involved and what side you land on at any given moment.


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