Ok just saying broskie, that should be your woman's gig

Father advice can not be giving to someone who's trying to insert himself in to a the "father" role of a child who isn't biologically his, bro.

It's different.

Wtf? Nah fam. Not trying to be her father, just trying to get advice from fathers.

For the most part mom and the kid got their thing, but sometimes mom needs help. And if I'm gonna help I want to actually be helpful.

Do you help with the rent?

Yup

Phil you demon

Kid is scared in a tent

during the night in the middle of the woods in North Bumblefuck

with mom and strange scary black man when he just starts screaming at her sounding all types of evil.



she officially hates you

Lol, she told her Mom that I should be her Mom instead. Kid fucking loves me.

Wasn't trying to offend you. I was just saying...

A FATHER giving tips to ANOTHER FATHER is reasonable, from my perspective. And that's just stupid, as well because everyone has their own style as well as personality. I could probably get away with doing certain shit you wouldn't be able too as far as disciplining and such - why? Because we both have different personalities and approaches and I"m my childrens biological father. It's hard giving advice or "tips" - as you call it to someone whom is TRYING to insert himself in that "Father Role". You say you aren't? If that's accurate, why have I heard you make the "Step dad" comment? And don't take this the wrong way, just trying to understand your motive so I can try and give the best advice too help. Not that I would know ANYTHING about raising a girl, considering I have 3 boys so my advice would just basically be as I typed up on the youtube page. The generic bond/friendship route.

Aero ur cousin paying u rent yet or is he still wipe his deck w ur decorative couch pillows while u jerk off to star trek in ur room in a sheet of tears?

Step dad isn't dad though...

Step dad isn't dad though...

Two totally different animals

Depends on the person really. I know some "Step dads" who try and fill that "Fathers" shoe.

Just take it one day at a time. Listen and observe. Positive reinforcement is always good, especially with a 4 year old.

Thanks man.

Now onward to the fuuuuuuutuuuuuuuure

Hold up NIGGA. It's a girl? So what if you baby sit her by yourself? My dude you look like the bear in The Cleveland Show. How would you look in the mall of South Dakota holding a little white girl's hand while she licking ice cream? Try to get her to call you step dad now fam so it doesn't raise eyebrows in public.

Yes, she's a girl. I have babysat her by myself before. I guess i can look like an animated bear to some people. We're not in South Dakota. I wouldn't give her ice cream. She calls me Phillipe, and I'm ok with it.

Bullshit, I was raised by a 'step father' who more than fulfilled the role of father in my life.

Like I said, "I DEPENDS" fucker.

There's so many interracial baby momma/daddy's bro.

It's 2017, get with the times son.

He'd look more normal these days holding the hand of a little white girl then your Asian ass holding the hand of a little white girl.

Get over yourself.

Godam it amen.

@Chill Phil

Just be you man. The same kind person you would be to a fully grown person.
Show her your not afraid to engage here and she herself will give you the opportunities to act like a a father figure to her.

I'm my honest opinion your doing fine. The kids talks to you acknowledges you. Your in. Now just build that relationship up as much as you can.

The only you got going against you is that as a "stepdad" you have always work, never give up trying to be her father. That's the end goal right? So that she's you asa father?

Your doing fine Phil. Take her to the zoo, have one on one convos with her. Those are important. My kids always surprise me with the little things they remember.

Why can't we be cool? We could tag team diss people with our snazzy remarks. You're so busy going against me not realizing how powerful we could be supporting one another's disses.