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veritas 11-19-2013 08:50 AM
@Objective

Contradictions....you do not care what people you do not know think or feel ablut you...but a majority of your psych well being is based upon what people who know you think and feel abkut you. Correct?

Objective 11-19-2013 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted by The Mind Assassin (Post 211285)
@Objective

Contradictions....you do not care what people you do not know think or feel ablut you...but a majority of your psych well being is based upon what people who know you think and feel abkut you. Correct?
Yep!

veritas 11-19-2013 09:33 AM
So can one or the other be changed?

Objective 11-19-2013 11:27 AM
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Originally Posted by The Mind Assassin (Post 211292)
So can one or the other be changed?
Probably, but I don't know how I can ''manipulate'' myself that way. Perhaps using similar methods they use for ppl with gambling addictions and irrational fears? Kinda far out there tho.. Either way I shouldn't care as much as I do, it isn't healthy.

veritas 11-19-2013 11:43 AM
So you are an approval junkie?

Witty 11-19-2013 02:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Objective (Post 211258)
There can be a bunch of reasons to why that is. For example that your problem isn't really that big of a problem and talking further on it will only complicate it and make it worse as opposed to you just dealing with it as it is now. That, or he wants to see if it gets worse/better and how you're dealing with rejection. But I can't talk for Veritas, therapists got their own way of dealing with people and their issues. Depends solely on each person and how they choose to attack a certain problem.
I think its because he thinks I'm trolling.

I can't blame him for that, sometimes I'm not sure when I'm joking or being serious so it would be hypocritical of me to expect others to make that distinction.

Rawn MD 11-19-2013 03:45 PM
@The Mind Assassin

OK u can elaborate on me since this thread is still alive

Thnx

veritas 11-19-2013 06:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Witty (Post 211417)
I think its because he thinks I'm trolling.

I can't blame him for that, sometimes I'm not sure when I'm joking or being serious so it would be hypocritical of me to expect others to make that distinction.
No.

veritas 11-19-2013 06:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Rawn MD (Post 211468)
@The Mind Assassin

OK u can elaborate on me since this thread is still alive

Thnx
No.

Rawn MD 11-19-2013 06:32 PM
fraud!

veritas 11-19-2013 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Rawn MD (Post 211611)
fraud!
Projection!^

Rawn MD 11-19-2013 10:08 PM
Lol kinda walked into that one

Well played

veritas 11-19-2013 10:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Rawn MD (Post 211743)
Lol kinda walked into that one

Well played
what have you discovered in life Gregory>?

Objective 11-20-2013 02:38 AM
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Originally Posted by The Mind Assassin (Post 211327)
So you are an approval junkie?
Lol, I've never considered myself to be one or given it much thought, but when things are put in perspective I guess I am alltho i very rarely bring out the notion that I need approval from my peers. I guess this is extremely normal for most humans tho, but I think my issue is that I let it affect me to the point that I lose control over myself and feel disconnected from the world which has a snowball effect on my anxiety and may even trigger depressive episodes.. So ye, alltho it seemed minor to me at first, this seems to be the most natural thing to start working with tbh.

Witty 11-20-2013 03:49 AM
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Originally Posted by The Mind Assassin (Post 211605)
No.
You disappoint me.

veritas 11-20-2013 11:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Objective (Post 211816)
Lol, I've never considered myself to be one or given it much thought, but when things are put in perspective I guess I am alltho i very rarely bring out the notion that I need approval from my peers. I guess this is extremely normal for most humans tho, but I think my issue is that I let it affect me to the point that I lose control over myself and feel disconnected from the world which has a snowball effect on my anxiety and may even trigger depressive episodes.. So ye, alltho it seemed minor to me at first, this seems to be the most natural thing to start working with tbh.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GkEE3gRX0kQ

Objective 11-20-2013 02:41 PM
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Originally Posted by The Mind Assassin (Post 211946)
It's relatable but it doesn't really add to anything that hasn't already been said... You know what you should do. You should watch the norwegian movie ''The Bothersome Man.'' It's available on Netflix. Then we can sit down and have a decent conversation. On some accounts it's extremely relatable to my situation atm, and at some point in my life the movie was almost too heavy to watch cuz it depicted exactly how I felt, it also opens up a lot interesting topics on other stuff as well. It's open for interpretation, so either way it'll be a nice watch.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wOAS4gke5s0


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